Monét X Change

He's guilty as all hell.

It'll be easy.

But he took a 15 year deal.

So he's in jail for 15 years.

Yeah, I don't know that I'm very good at like that.

I don't know that I really like sat and worked through it.

But organically, the process for me was, yeah, like initially I was paranoid as hell for like the first year after I would like sleep.

I went and got my right to carry in Florida and I would sleep like gun in hand every single night.

I wouldn't go to sleep till the sun came up.

and I lived like that for a long time and then I got really exhausted and was like okay I can't sustain this and so then I got my Rottweiler um and you know I got a roommate which was kind of like really important to me at that point like I was like I don't think I can live alone for a minute um

just yeah just being in a house alone just was the thing that kind of freaked me out and so yeah and then you know I just woke up one day and I just was kind of over it and I was like you know what I'm really freaking lucky so many women and people in general get stalked for years and it's very hard to prosecute a stalker until they kind of cross that threshold that gets into the legalities and so I consider myself lucky that this dude was dumb enough to

go for it and thankfully failed and now he's in jail so i look at myself as like one of the best case scenarios whereas people deal with stalkers like putting shit in their mailbox showing up on their property for years and can't prosecute them because they didn't make a threat to their lives right and like sir and i think the laws around that need to change as well because it's a bunch of bullshit fully agree yeah that's a crazy story yeah it's wild

Yeah, I mean, the laws are wacky.

It's like you can't get a restraining order against someone unless you're in a relationship with them.

At least that's how it works in the state of New Jersey.

And so...

what and then you have to get this vaspa order but then when you give the vaspa order it'll come from your hometown court so then they'll if they don't know exactly where you live like now they will and so yeah there's just a lot of stuff i've been speaking with um officials and law enforcement for a while now trying to work on some of this but that's to come in the future hopefully yeah

Oh, yeah.

I don't know that I'm the best example of this.

I really like I look at that as a one off experience.