Monica Lewinsky

Like he knew that I liked, I think he had refrigerated it or something.

So it was like all the nice things that man could do to you or do for you, not do to you.

And, and, and,

He handed it to me, and that's when I just broke down.

And as I was peeling it, I was, like, trying to hide my face with the orange peels.

I was like, oh, my God, here I go.

I'm like, oh, my God, I'm losing my shit right now.

And tears and tears are coming down my face, and he's just sitting back like, finally.

Like, okay, we can't fix you until you break down.

You know what I mean?

And that's what you learn about children too.

That's what I learned in my parenting class.

Even when someone's obstinate and they're rebellious, if they can still cry, they're still vulnerable and you can still get to them.

Wow.

So that's important to remember with like... That's really interesting.

Wait, say that again.

That's really interesting.

If you can... Like, if a girl's really rebellious and she's a bitch every night when she gets home and she's hormonal and she's going through preberty and she's mean to her mother and she's mean to her father, she's not gone forever.

If she can still cry, if she can still be vulnerable, and this goes for boys too, but obviously I have more women in my life.

As long as you can get to them, if someone can break down, then you have access to try to heal them.