Monica Loughman
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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But you feel like you're chosen.
You know, somebody didn't just...
Like back then, that would happen, you know.
They picked me.
I was chosen.
But then subsequently, I found out that I wasn't picked.
I was made.
So my father had an affair with the woman.
I was born in England in a very fancy hospital because she was fancy.
And then I was put in an orphanage in Blackrock.
Yeah, but I only found out when I was 24.
Yeah.
You know, through the years, I, you know, I've, outside of how I felt, I've thought about how my mother and my siblings felt.
And I'd say it was a huge betrayal to her and in a way to them.
So I have carried that.
That will always be with me.
Yeah, no, no, no.
She was amazing to me.
Like we we loved each other profoundly.
And I can't say enough for adoption.