Monica
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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I have learned that I've got to preface.
I want to be toxic for a second.
Like, I want to call this person an asshole.
I don't want to hear about why it might not be their fault.
Or they might have had this thing.
Like, I need to express that I fucking hate this about this person right now, and I'm not really interested in making a case for them yet.
I'll get there, but I'm not there.
I know what it's coming from, too.
It's like, oh, they're struggling with this.
If I can paint this other version, it might alleviate this angst they're feeling.
Like, it feels like a solution, I think, in the moment when you're delivering that.
But when you're receiving it, you're like, well, I don't even want to tell you.
I'll tell someone else that's willing to go like, yeah, they're a fucking prick.
And then later I'll think of it, you know.