Monte Wood
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Yes, and I agree. So my book probably will not sell 100,000 copies. But I will tell you, Vince, that I've had 25 or 30 people tell me the book changed their lives for the better. I had one person just last week came up and said that she changed jobs because she realized in reading the book that
Yes, and I agree. So my book probably will not sell 100,000 copies. But I will tell you, Vince, that I've had 25 or 30 people tell me the book changed their lives for the better. I had one person just last week came up and said that she changed jobs because she realized in reading the book that
that the people she worked for were not generous people and that she did not want to be in that situation. And she moved to another job and she said it's the best thing that has happened to her in many years. So that kind of thing is just such a beautiful reward. In fact, it spurs me to ask you a question. Is it selfish? to be authentically generous.
that the people she worked for were not generous people and that she did not want to be in that situation. And she moved to another job and she said it's the best thing that has happened to her in many years. So that kind of thing is just such a beautiful reward. In fact, it spurs me to ask you a question. Is it selfish? to be authentically generous.
So again, with no expectation of exchange or return from the recipient in order to create your own success.
So again, with no expectation of exchange or return from the recipient in order to create your own success.
Yeah, I think your initial response, no, is a good answer. I actually believe that focusing on generosity, helping others, right, to pave the way for your own success isn't being selfish. It's just being wise. And this is a hard concept for people to understand, right? But truly generous people.
Yeah, I think your initial response, no, is a good answer. I actually believe that focusing on generosity, helping others, right, to pave the way for your own success isn't being selfish. It's just being wise. And this is a hard concept for people to understand, right? But truly generous people.
If you read up, if you pick up any book on success, there's a number of things they'll tell you that are going to lead to success. At the top of the list is always relationships. Close in relationships. Harvard just published their study, their 50-year study. And the most important aspect of happiness is for individuals out of their study was relationships, connected, close relationships.
If you read up, if you pick up any book on success, there's a number of things they'll tell you that are going to lead to success. At the top of the list is always relationships. Close in relationships. Harvard just published their study, their 50-year study. And the most important aspect of happiness is for individuals out of their study was relationships, connected, close relationships.
Now the self-help books are going to tell you confidence. Then they're going to say mindset. And then they're going to say trust. And then they're going to say your own emotional well-being. And I believe that being a generous person leads to all of those. So being a generous person leads to success. If you know that, then you have a North Star. You have something that you can focus on every day.
Now the self-help books are going to tell you confidence. Then they're going to say mindset. And then they're going to say trust. And then they're going to say your own emotional well-being. And I believe that being a generous person leads to all of those. So being a generous person leads to success. If you know that, then you have a North Star. You have something that you can focus on every day.
You can attract success versus desperately pursuing it. And I think attracting it by being a generous person is a much more rewarding way of going through life. So let's break that down a little bit. Relationships. Everybody knows that generous people develop relationships faster and more meaningful. Courage. Let's talk about confidence and courage.
You can attract success versus desperately pursuing it. And I think attracting it by being a generous person is a much more rewarding way of going through life. So let's break that down a little bit. Relationships. Everybody knows that generous people develop relationships faster and more meaningful. Courage. Let's talk about confidence and courage.
Most studies will tell you that it takes courage, it takes confidence to be generous. To do generous acts takes a certain degree of confidence. So you're actually practicing how to be courageous and how to be confident by being generous.
Most studies will tell you that it takes courage, it takes confidence to be generous. To do generous acts takes a certain degree of confidence. So you're actually practicing how to be courageous and how to be confident by being generous.
Mindset, let me ask you, do you think you will feel like you're more deserving of success if you're helping other people or if you're cheating other people in life? Of course, it's the former. Right. So you're going to feel like you're more deserving of life. So your mindset is better.
Mindset, let me ask you, do you think you will feel like you're more deserving of success if you're helping other people or if you're cheating other people in life? Of course, it's the former. Right. So you're going to feel like you're more deserving of life. So your mindset is better.
Trust, if you are really an authentically generous person with yourself, with others, with the world, do you think people will trust you more? And of course, that's a rhetorical question. The answer is yes, right? But the other thing is that your own emotional well-being, when you do generous, it'd be interesting if you ask ChatGPT, what are the scientific benefits of Of being generous.
Trust, if you are really an authentically generous person with yourself, with others, with the world, do you think people will trust you more? And of course, that's a rhetorical question. The answer is yes, right? But the other thing is that your own emotional well-being, when you do generous, it'd be interesting if you ask ChatGPT, what are the scientific benefits of Of being generous.