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Remember, there's no right or wrong way to grief.

It's a deeply personal journey, unique to each individual.

But amidst the turbulence, there's always a glimmer of hope, a possibility for growth and healing.

Perhaps you were clinging to the past, wishing things could be different, holding on to memories with white nickels.

This resistance only magnifies the pain.

What if we shifted our focus?

Instead of battling against the current of loss, what if we learned to swim with it, allowing ourselves to move through the water, accepting its flow without fighting?

This doesn't mean forgetting or denying your grief.

It means embracing it as a part of you, a story woven into the fabric of your being.

Imagine this.

You are sitting by a still pond, reflecting on the ripples caused by loss.

Observe those waves with curiosity, noticing their patterns, their intensity.

See how they eventually settle, leaving behind calm waters.

This is a metaphor for grief, the initial shock and upheaval followed by a gradual process of healing and acceptance.

Now bring your attention to yourself.

Feel your breath gently flowing in and out.

Notice any tightness or tension in your body.

With each inhale, visualize a warm golden light filling your chest, expanding outwards, soothing every aching part.

As you exhale, release any lingering pain, surrendering it to the universal flow of energy.

Remember, self-compassion is not about minimizing the pain, it's about acknowledging it with kindness and understanding.