Nancy Latham

Just give in and get out.

So my husband really had nothing to lose in admitting an affair, according to the state.

It's not like he was going to be penalized financially.

That's correct.

But there was no penalty if he was having an affair.

He was the breadwinner.

He was the one who made all the money.

Sure.

There was no sense for him not to admit the affair.

He could easily say, yeah, I'm having an affair, what's it to you?

But he wouldn't.

And it was the fact that he wouldn't that we knew we had him.

I said to my attorney, he's going to settle before we walk up those steps.

He may wait until we are pushing the doors open to the courtroom, but I promise you he is going to settle.

Even then, it did not hit me that she was sleeping with my husband.

My attorney looked at me and said, did you go talk to her husband?

Did you hire a PI to talk to her husband?

And I said, God, no, I don't even know who he is.

I called Matt and he agreed to meet with me at Starbucks.

He told me that his wife had, in months prior, commented on how she was so tired of covering for him having an affair with a different co-worker, and it was just driving her crazy.