Natalie Dawson

Okay, I would need to actually reverse engineer using my time and what I do every single day to get me closer to people.

who are doing those similar things and so that might actually take me making sacrifices for two years in order to be able to be around people to be able to give value to people who'd be interested in being my friend and it sounds a little

strategic, but it is because you don't just get great people in your life because you happen to be at the right place at the right time.

You get great people by doing great things because great people want to spend time around other people who are doing great things.

And the only way that you can certainly know that you were doing great things without getting lucky or happening to look a certain way so that you get invited into certain places is by managing and really creating your own time.

working hard is the most important thing.

You cannot get to where you want to go if it's truly something that is unusual or out of the ordinary without working hard.

And you could try to hack it

Let's say somebody happens to be beautiful.

I guess you could get the yacht and a relationship because you're beautiful and somebody is willing to be in a relationship with you because you're a good person.

But I've met those people, and those people have crippling fear and anxiety because they don't actually know what their place is, and they didn't do what was required to have the thing.

So going back to, like, be, do, have –

People who win the lottery, they have all the money.

People who inherit wealth, they have all the money.

This was my fear.

I was going to have money because I'm connected to my husband, but I didn't do the work and become the person that created the havingness until I did do the work to become the person to have the thing.

So now that I have it, I can actually have it.

And when you are able in life to have things that you want because you did it in the right order, you don't have this anxiousness.

You don't have this anxiety.

You don't have this worry or fear that someone's going to take it from you.