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Nathan Walter

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
76 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

So any type of linguistic cues that remind people that they still have control.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Absolutely.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

And it is the case that

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Everyone, we often call the psychological reactants.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

So it is the case that it's universal, but you mentioned teens, so I'll be remiss not to say that teens and terrible twos seem to have the strongest manifestations of this.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

But yeah, once you are very forceful with someone, we get into this automatic state where we get angry and we react.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

And, you know, just as an example, imagine that you're driving to work and someone cuts into your lane.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

You immediately get angry.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

They just took your freedom and you will try to do something to restore that freedom.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

As opposed to someone signals that they want to get into your lane and you feel so generous, you allow them to, you feel actually wonderful about yourself.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

So I think this is a good analogy to recommendations from experts.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Yeah, I think, you know, so if we're talking about schmuck scenes and social media, so often when social media platforms will censor or deplatform people who make false claims,

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

It seems like a good idea, but it's almost like the forbidden fruit.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Now you took away my ability to get this information.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Now I want this information even more.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

So these types of actions seem to be less effective.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

Also, any type of very forceful language that tells you this is the only reasonable thing to do.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

That's the only way out of this pandemic is doing this.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

probably not the smartest choice because it's not that these types of commands actually equal compliance.

The Last Show with David Cooper
FULL EPISODE: Don't Tell Me What To Do - January 28, 2026

I think we just need to perhaps slightly adjust our entire messaging strategy.