Nathan

And we're both busy people.

And, you know, time is a challenge when you've got two teenagers and all those sort of things.

And so got to a point last summer where we had a really honest conversation.

I shared, you know, kind of some things that I was

really missing in that area.

And she was honest about how she felt about some of those things.

And so kind of just became pretty obvious that some of the things that I was looking for were unlikely to happen.

And to be clear, these aren't, you know, wild sort of things.

They're pretty run of the mill, honestly, I think for most people, but yeah.

Yeah, well, I think it really comes down to just, there's just not as much excitement or adventure in that part of life.

And I think I've come to a better understanding and talking with her, understanding maybe why that's the case.

What does she say about that?

What does she say about that?

Um, uh, she eventually like shared that there's some past history that I was unaware of, um, prior to me that impacted her, you know, approach to things.

Um, in addition to just where she's at, um,

her drive and those sort of things were just kind of mismatched in that area.

So, I mean, frequency was a part of the equation, but beyond that, just, you know, it was pretty much the same every single time.

And, you know, I wanted something with a little more variety, a little more adventure.

Sure.

Something to that effect.