Nathaniel

She's the youngest of many siblings. She has no assets or liabilities of her own, virtually no income potential. She's a pianist, but we're actually happy about this arrangement. She wants to be a mom. I'll be a breadwinner. This seems good. My question is about my future in-laws. So her parents are retired. They actually live in China.

And they lost a lot of money by mortgaging their fully paid for apartment for leverage in a risky investment, which of course failed. And there's something like $25,000 in the hole. So I guess, my question is I'm thinking about how, how I should manage this. Um, like what's the right thing to do here?

And they lost a lot of money by mortgaging their fully paid for apartment for leverage in a risky investment, which of course failed. And there's something like $25,000 in the hole. So I guess, my question is I'm thinking about how, how I should manage this. Um, like what's the right thing to do here?

And they lost a lot of money by mortgaging their fully paid for apartment for leverage in a risky investment, which of course failed. And there's something like $25,000 in the hole. So I guess, my question is I'm thinking about how, how I should manage this. Um, like what's the right thing to do here?

These are the, my future in-laws, like on the one hand, their family, I could pay off their debt, like literally 40 times over. Uh, what I'd be a jerk not to run the other hand, Part of me doesn't really feel like using my money, soon to be our money, to help people who in retirement mortgages are only safe asset for leverage in a single risky investment.

These are the, my future in-laws, like on the one hand, their family, I could pay off their debt, like literally 40 times over. Uh, what I'd be a jerk not to run the other hand, Part of me doesn't really feel like using my money, soon to be our money, to help people who in retirement mortgages are only safe asset for leverage in a single risky investment.

These are the, my future in-laws, like on the one hand, their family, I could pay off their debt, like literally 40 times over. Uh, what I'd be a jerk not to run the other hand, Part of me doesn't really feel like using my money, soon to be our money, to help people who in retirement mortgages are only safe asset for leverage in a single risky investment.

No, I'm just thinking ahead. In fact, my fiance doesn't actually know about the full extent of my wealth, and I haven't really been sure how to explain this to her.

No, I'm just thinking ahead. In fact, my fiance doesn't actually know about the full extent of my wealth, and I haven't really been sure how to explain this to her.

No, I'm just thinking ahead. In fact, my fiance doesn't actually know about the full extent of my wealth, and I haven't really been sure how to explain this to her.

Correct. Interesting. I'm just thinking ahead on what, because I imagine this could come up. Yeah.

Correct. Interesting. I'm just thinking ahead on what, because I imagine this could come up. Yeah.

Correct. Interesting. I'm just thinking ahead on what, because I imagine this could come up. Yeah.

Yeah, maybe I should clarify that a little bit more. I think initially, so this came somewhat recently. It was kind of a surprise to me. I had no idea this was coming. And also, I just... There was a part of me that wanted to make sure to feel secure that she's interested in me only because of me and not the fact that I happen to have the pot of gold behind me.

Yeah, maybe I should clarify that a little bit more. I think initially, so this came somewhat recently. It was kind of a surprise to me. I had no idea this was coming. And also, I just... There was a part of me that wanted to make sure to feel secure that she's interested in me only because of me and not the fact that I happen to have the pot of gold behind me.

Yeah, maybe I should clarify that a little bit more. I think initially, so this came somewhat recently. It was kind of a surprise to me. I had no idea this was coming. And also, I just... There was a part of me that wanted to make sure to feel secure that she's interested in me only because of me and not the fact that I happen to have the pot of gold behind me.

And I live a lifestyle which doesn't at all reflect that I have the pot of gold behind me. Yeah, you can do that in about a week. Yeah.

And I live a lifestyle which doesn't at all reflect that I have the pot of gold behind me. Yeah, you can do that in about a week. Yeah.

And I live a lifestyle which doesn't at all reflect that I have the pot of gold behind me. Yeah, you can do that in about a week. Yeah.

Right. Yeah. I mean, she knows I'm not suffering. She knows I've never been struggling from anything like that.