Nedra Glover Tawwab

And once you get to that space of recognizing like, okay, whoa, back to self, back to self, you know, there is this slowly moving back to that and acknowledge it. We have just been spending so much time together and that I actually forgot that I really like to bowl. I want to go bowling just by myself. It's my thing. I want to get back to that.

Just letting that new partner know that, wow, this has been amazing. Let's keep it up. And also, I need some time to myself. So good.

Just letting that new partner know that, wow, this has been amazing. Let's keep it up. And also, I need some time to myself. So good.

Just letting that new partner know that, wow, this has been amazing. Let's keep it up. And also, I need some time to myself. So good.

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Yeah, enmeshment is giving up of self. So if you are enmeshed and you are doing things that you don't actually enjoy, it's not really fulfilling. you're doing it for this other person. And to some extent, there are some things that you will do in a relationship for the other person, but what are you doing for yourself?

Yeah, enmeshment is giving up of self. So if you are enmeshed and you are doing things that you don't actually enjoy, it's not really fulfilling. you're doing it for this other person. And to some extent, there are some things that you will do in a relationship for the other person, but what are you doing for yourself?

Yeah, enmeshment is giving up of self. So if you are enmeshed and you are doing things that you don't actually enjoy, it's not really fulfilling. you're doing it for this other person. And to some extent, there are some things that you will do in a relationship for the other person, but what are you doing for yourself?

What things do you enjoy by yourself, maybe with friends outside of the relationship, with family members? We do think that, oh my gosh, I want to be around this person all the time. This is love. But there are tons of people I think about, you know, many grandparents who stay married sleeping in separate rooms.

What things do you enjoy by yourself, maybe with friends outside of the relationship, with family members? We do think that, oh my gosh, I want to be around this person all the time. This is love. But there are tons of people I think about, you know, many grandparents who stay married sleeping in separate rooms.

What things do you enjoy by yourself, maybe with friends outside of the relationship, with family members? We do think that, oh my gosh, I want to be around this person all the time. This is love. But there are tons of people I think about, you know, many grandparents who stay married sleeping in separate rooms.

You know, it's like this is the only way we can be together because I can't take that snoring or, you know, whatever that is. It's like we're still together because we're not sleeping in the same room. You know, we always thought like, oh, this is terrible. Maybe it's not. Maybe it's not terrible. Not looking so terrible now, folks. Yeah. It's like maybe we have different sleep habits.

You know, it's like this is the only way we can be together because I can't take that snoring or, you know, whatever that is. It's like we're still together because we're not sleeping in the same room. You know, we always thought like, oh, this is terrible. Maybe it's not. Maybe it's not terrible. Not looking so terrible now, folks. Yeah. It's like maybe we have different sleep habits.

You know, it's like this is the only way we can be together because I can't take that snoring or, you know, whatever that is. It's like we're still together because we're not sleeping in the same room. You know, we always thought like, oh, this is terrible. Maybe it's not. Maybe it's not terrible. Not looking so terrible now, folks. Yeah. It's like maybe we have different sleep habits.

Isn't it a healthy thing to be able to sleep at night? So if that means that, hey, I can still be in this relationship, but I just need to go down the hall at nighttime. Hey, what is the problem there? We curate the rules for our relationships. And sometimes we are looking at other couples. We're looking at our parents and people on TV.

Isn't it a healthy thing to be able to sleep at night? So if that means that, hey, I can still be in this relationship, but I just need to go down the hall at nighttime. Hey, what is the problem there? We curate the rules for our relationships. And sometimes we are looking at other couples. We're looking at our parents and people on TV.

Isn't it a healthy thing to be able to sleep at night? So if that means that, hey, I can still be in this relationship, but I just need to go down the hall at nighttime. Hey, what is the problem there? We curate the rules for our relationships. And sometimes we are looking at other couples. We're looking at our parents and people on TV.

Yeah, and we're saying, this is what a relationship is supposed to be like. It's like, that's what that relationship is supposed to be like. You have to figure out what works for you. For you, Abby, you've discovered you like watching movies really loud by yourself. That's your thing. You know, you want to do that with someone who enjoys it. And guess who it is? It's you.