Nelly Furtado
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hopefully they know you well enough to not repel you with judgment or anything like that. And it's not judgment. You can sense when it's love. And I think everyone has someone, you know, maybe one person or one voice in their life that is maybe like reminding you when stuff is not okay and like what your worth is and what behavior is unacceptable if you cannot see it for yourself. It's so true.
hopefully they know you well enough to not repel you with judgment or anything like that. And it's not judgment. You can sense when it's love. And I think everyone has someone, you know, maybe one person or one voice in their life that is maybe like reminding you when stuff is not okay and like what your worth is and what behavior is unacceptable if you cannot see it for yourself. It's so true.
Yeah, to just kind of be like, no, actually, I'm not going to talk to you anymore. Right. Or whatnot. But tough love doesn't work all the time, but it's in doses, right? And I'm trying to think of another thing that helped me. I think... Ooh, geez, that's such a good question. I think you have aha moments. You know what I mean?
Yeah, to just kind of be like, no, actually, I'm not going to talk to you anymore. Right. Or whatnot. But tough love doesn't work all the time, but it's in doses, right? And I'm trying to think of another thing that helped me. I think... Ooh, geez, that's such a good question. I think you have aha moments. You know what I mean?
Yeah, to just kind of be like, no, actually, I'm not going to talk to you anymore. Right. Or whatnot. But tough love doesn't work all the time, but it's in doses, right? And I'm trying to think of another thing that helped me. I think... Ooh, geez, that's such a good question. I think you have aha moments. You know what I mean?
They just have sometimes like a moment where you're like, okay, you know, and then sometimes, I guess I was lucky in a way because maybe like, on top of it, I wasn't really the one who chose at the end of the day. Like, you know what I mean? I went through a rough time, but then At the end of the day, it wasn't really my decision. But then I quickly learned that then, okay, now I'm doing me.
They just have sometimes like a moment where you're like, okay, you know, and then sometimes, I guess I was lucky in a way because maybe like, on top of it, I wasn't really the one who chose at the end of the day. Like, you know what I mean? I went through a rough time, but then At the end of the day, it wasn't really my decision. But then I quickly learned that then, okay, now I'm doing me.
They just have sometimes like a moment where you're like, okay, you know, and then sometimes, I guess I was lucky in a way because maybe like, on top of it, I wasn't really the one who chose at the end of the day. Like, you know what I mean? I went through a rough time, but then At the end of the day, it wasn't really my decision. But then I quickly learned that then, okay, now I'm doing me.
You do. And then for some reason, your brain only feeds you happy memories. It's really weird.
You do. And then for some reason, your brain only feeds you happy memories. It's really weird.
You do. And then for some reason, your brain only feeds you happy memories. It's really weird.
You're like, maybe she was actually the restaurant, the coffee shop, like the movie we went to. And it's like very weird. It's so fucked up. That's a tough phase. Yeah, that's a tough phase when your brain feeds you all these happy memories. Let's flood you with happy because there are happy memories, right?
You're like, maybe she was actually the restaurant, the coffee shop, like the movie we went to. And it's like very weird. It's so fucked up. That's a tough phase. Yeah, that's a tough phase when your brain feeds you all these happy memories. Let's flood you with happy because there are happy memories, right?
You're like, maybe she was actually the restaurant, the coffee shop, like the movie we went to. And it's like very weird. It's so fucked up. That's a tough phase. Yeah, that's a tough phase when your brain feeds you all these happy memories. Let's flood you with happy because there are happy memories, right?
Yeah, it's just totally normal. It's a process. You know what I mean? Because the truth is, it's like anything, right? Like, how many Band-Aids do you have, right? And how long do those take to heal?
Yeah, it's just totally normal. It's a process. You know what I mean? Because the truth is, it's like anything, right? Like, how many Band-Aids do you have, right? And how long do those take to heal?
Yeah, it's just totally normal. It's a process. You know what I mean? Because the truth is, it's like anything, right? Like, how many Band-Aids do you have, right? And how long do those take to heal?