Nicholas

Well, I just got the phone with my mom. She's mad that I haven't visited her in a day or since the weekend. In those moments, I would tell her mom like, hey, you can't call her just to make her cry and trying to be in between the two of them. which nowadays, you know, if there's ever anything with her mom, it's not something I dismiss and say, like, you deal with it on your own.

Well, I just got the phone with my mom. She's mad that I haven't visited her in a day or since the weekend. In those moments, I would tell her mom like, hey, you can't call her just to make her cry and trying to be in between the two of them. which nowadays, you know, if there's ever anything with her mom, it's not something I dismiss and say, like, you deal with it on your own.

It's more of like, I don't want to get in between it. So where it looks like I'm blocking that relationship.

It's more of like, I don't want to get in between it. So where it looks like I'm blocking that relationship.

It's more of like, I don't want to get in between it. So where it looks like I'm blocking that relationship.

Exactly. That was all before telling her we're having a baby. And so after that, I was like, you know what? I shouldn't be the one doing that anymore because it's just another excuse for her to say that I'm holding you captive or that my family has you locked away in this tower somewhere. So this is when she proceeds to nonstop call my phone, my wife's phone, our work, my parents.

Exactly. That was all before telling her we're having a baby. And so after that, I was like, you know what? I shouldn't be the one doing that anymore because it's just another excuse for her to say that I'm holding you captive or that my family has you locked away in this tower somewhere. So this is when she proceeds to nonstop call my phone, my wife's phone, our work, my parents.

Exactly. That was all before telling her we're having a baby. And so after that, I was like, you know what? I shouldn't be the one doing that anymore because it's just another excuse for her to say that I'm holding you captive or that my family has you locked away in this tower somewhere. So this is when she proceeds to nonstop call my phone, my wife's phone, our work, my parents.

She's sending texts from random numbers. She's sending letters from zip codes that are not near us to my parents and to us with threats.

She's sending texts from random numbers. She's sending letters from zip codes that are not near us to my parents and to us with threats.

She's sending texts from random numbers. She's sending letters from zip codes that are not near us to my parents and to us with threats.

A majority of what she would send to my parents would be, how could you do this to my daughter? Like, you're keeping her from me, even though we didn't live with my parents or anything. Like, they weren't doing anything.

A majority of what she would send to my parents would be, how could you do this to my daughter? Like, you're keeping her from me, even though we didn't live with my parents or anything. Like, they weren't doing anything.

A majority of what she would send to my parents would be, how could you do this to my daughter? Like, you're keeping her from me, even though we didn't live with my parents or anything. Like, they weren't doing anything.

They were just really nice and helpful to us when we were first buried. But then what turned for us was she would start to mention her grandmother rights. Oh.

They were just really nice and helpful to us when we were first buried. But then what turned for us was she would start to mention her grandmother rights. Oh.

They were just really nice and helpful to us when we were first buried. But then what turned for us was she would start to mention her grandmother rights. Oh.

Maybe it's a thing then because where I was working, I had someone nearby who was a lawyer. It just freaked me out. I was like, what does that mean? Could she try to take our kid? Because that was kind of the implication from some of the letters and texts and phone calls we get from her is that you guys are having a baby, but you won't be able to keep that baby from me. That was terrifying.

Maybe it's a thing then because where I was working, I had someone nearby who was a lawyer. It just freaked me out. I was like, what does that mean? Could she try to take our kid? Because that was kind of the implication from some of the letters and texts and phone calls we get from her is that you guys are having a baby, but you won't be able to keep that baby from me. That was terrifying.

Maybe it's a thing then because where I was working, I had someone nearby who was a lawyer. It just freaked me out. I was like, what does that mean? Could she try to take our kid? Because that was kind of the implication from some of the letters and texts and phone calls we get from her is that you guys are having a baby, but you won't be able to keep that baby from me. That was terrifying.