Nick Freitas
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These are the sort of things.
You're constantly developing these throughout your entire life, right?
So develop those capabilities.
And then for those guys that want to get married,
Go, you know, again, think about the sort of woman that you actually want to marry and have kids with, right?
Not just not one you want to sleep with, the one that you want to actually live life with.
Because I guarantee you, by the way, the sleeping with part will be better if you love and respect who they are, not just as a physical object, but when you actually love them for who they are.
So go develop yourself, make yourself attracted to that sort of woman, and then put yourself in proximity of the sort of woman you would want to marry, right?
And then you're far more likely to actually start having things that you got to wake up for every day in order to meet these challenges.
And it does.
It gives your life purpose.
You feel that kind of meaning.
And when you have that and when you develop the discipline necessary to attain it, not only do you save yourself, not only do you save your family, you save your country.
Because that's the building block of America, right?
I mean, I love the Declaration of Independence.
I love the Constitution.
But without people taking personal responsibility over their lives to make it better, those things don't stand up by themselves.
They need to stand on a good theological framework, and they need to stand on a framework of people that actually take their own lives as their own personal responsibility.
So those are the things that I would tell young men.
You just pick small things that you can accomplish every day that lead to larger goals that you're trying to achieve.