Nick Middaugh

And to be clear, like I write specifically about like the male cohort of CSA victims.

Yeah. Yeah. So in that cohort though, you have like an occurrence rate that's suggested between one and six to one and four. For men or women?

Yeah. Yeah. So in that cohort though, you have like an occurrence rate that's suggested between one and six to one and four. For men or women?

Yeah. Yeah. So in that cohort though, you have like an occurrence rate that's suggested between one and six to one and four. For men or women?

For men.

For men.

For men.

16% maybe. So when you combine that with like, hey, the average reticence of 20 years, you have a issue that I believe is far too rampant because fucking 16 to 25% is huge of our young men that are going through.

16% maybe. So when you combine that with like, hey, the average reticence of 20 years, you have a issue that I believe is far too rampant because fucking 16 to 25% is huge of our young men that are going through.

16% maybe. So when you combine that with like, hey, the average reticence of 20 years, you have a issue that I believe is far too rampant because fucking 16 to 25% is huge of our young men that are going through.

And the average among them is, you know, they're not going to say shit for 20 years if they disclose it all. God, human beings can be so horrible to each other. Yeah. Yeah. And it's a disgusting issue that, you know, I don't. I think the first step towards really trying to combat it is it takes dudes being vulnerable enough to get out there and talk about it.

And the average among them is, you know, they're not going to say shit for 20 years if they disclose it all. God, human beings can be so horrible to each other. Yeah. Yeah. And it's a disgusting issue that, you know, I don't. I think the first step towards really trying to combat it is it takes dudes being vulnerable enough to get out there and talk about it.

And the average among them is, you know, they're not going to say shit for 20 years if they disclose it all. God, human beings can be so horrible to each other. Yeah. Yeah. And it's a disgusting issue that, you know, I don't. I think the first step towards really trying to combat it is it takes dudes being vulnerable enough to get out there and talk about it.

Man, it's hard to... And I kind of go into that a little bit in the book. And it's hard because... It's really a wolf among sheep issue. I mean, these are people with trust and access. You might love them, and it turns out they're doing this kind of thing. Well, that's what they need, though, is trust and access. Right, yeah.

Man, it's hard to... And I kind of go into that a little bit in the book. And it's hard because... It's really a wolf among sheep issue. I mean, these are people with trust and access. You might love them, and it turns out they're doing this kind of thing. Well, that's what they need, though, is trust and access. Right, yeah.

Man, it's hard to... And I kind of go into that a little bit in the book. And it's hard because... It's really a wolf among sheep issue. I mean, these are people with trust and access. You might love them, and it turns out they're doing this kind of thing. Well, that's what they need, though, is trust and access. Right, yeah.

And I think, honestly, beyond awareness, I think a lot of it falls on the parents to try to cultivate an environment where they're vulnerable enough. Don't talk at them about these kind of things. And again, I'm not a professional. I don't have my degree yet. I'm strictly talking from a survivor perspective who has young kids, all right? I'm sure there's better guidance out there.

And I think, honestly, beyond awareness, I think a lot of it falls on the parents to try to cultivate an environment where they're vulnerable enough. Don't talk at them about these kind of things. And again, I'm not a professional. I don't have my degree yet. I'm strictly talking from a survivor perspective who has young kids, all right? I'm sure there's better guidance out there.

And I think, honestly, beyond awareness, I think a lot of it falls on the parents to try to cultivate an environment where they're vulnerable enough. Don't talk at them about these kind of things. And again, I'm not a professional. I don't have my degree yet. I'm strictly talking from a survivor perspective who has young kids, all right? I'm sure there's better guidance out there.

But cultivating an environment where your son feels comfortable, knows for a fact that they can come to you about this kind of thing, having the right kind of conversations that are age appropriate about what your friends should be doing and what they can't be doing regarding whether it's touches or seeing you naked or whatever it might be is a good first foot forward.