Nick Viall

I mean, like, you know, listen, just be a respectful guy, step up and make a move.

It'd be my response to them.

But just to give them a little grace and empathy.

Yeah.

I think it's a little trickier out there from them to know, especially young guys who are, you know, are inexperienced.

He's only 26.

So, you know, it's all he knows is to be very aware of his surroundings and the surroundings of the women he's pursuing and to be respectful of their boundaries.

Like that's,

You're in HR and that's work.

So yeah, I think your brother's right that like chances are, yeah, there's a good chance he could be interested in and not do it out of fear of the right or wrong thing to do.

And, you know, there's a level of like, well, she's in HR.

She knows whether this is okay or not.

So she'll ask me, you know.

He hasn't made any major moves, but he's- So don't be so, don't be so, I don't think you should walk up to him with a bouquet of flowers and say, will you go on a date with me?

You could extend the lunch invitation from work to like, what are you doing tonight?

There's this place I wanted to try.

Good practice.

Listen, the days in which I never do this, I only do that, especially when it comes to gender roles and things like that, are outdated and antiquated.

I am guessing on some level you are a progressive, empowered, independent woman.

as you should be you let's not cherry pick the the the handful of things that you're like well i i am in all those things but this is the thing that i will never do this is a man's job and he's you know it's like you could still it whenever whenever you find your relationship you can define those roles and and you can be when you want more demure and and and take a step back and you can have your man lead but i don't think when it comes to meeting your person