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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

You know, think of it as like sick planning.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

You know, think of it as like sick planning.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. We shouldn't think about prenups as divorce planning either because we don't think crash insurance for car insurance. Right. It's just protecting yourself. I think they just got a bad rap. It can feel really awkward. But if you take back the power and the ownership of that conversation, it takes away some of that awkwardness, I think. Yeah, I agree. Or start the conversation.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. We shouldn't think about prenups as divorce planning either because we don't think crash insurance for car insurance. Right. It's just protecting yourself. I think they just got a bad rap. It can feel really awkward. But if you take back the power and the ownership of that conversation, it takes away some of that awkwardness, I think. Yeah, I agree. Or start the conversation.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. We shouldn't think about prenups as divorce planning either because we don't think crash insurance for car insurance. Right. It's just protecting yourself. I think they just got a bad rap. It can feel really awkward. But if you take back the power and the ownership of that conversation, it takes away some of that awkwardness, I think. Yeah, I agree. Or start the conversation.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

If somebody is feeling weird about it, once you open up about something vulnerable, it gives another person license to do the same thing. Agreed. But somebody has to go first. Yes. Be like, listen, baby, this is our big, beautiful life. You, me, Zane, all the kids, the whole clan, all of our hopes and dreams. This is about planning and vision.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

If somebody is feeling weird about it, once you open up about something vulnerable, it gives another person license to do the same thing. Agreed. But somebody has to go first. Yes. Be like, listen, baby, this is our big, beautiful life. You, me, Zane, all the kids, the whole clan, all of our hopes and dreams. This is about planning and vision.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

If somebody is feeling weird about it, once you open up about something vulnerable, it gives another person license to do the same thing. Agreed. But somebody has to go first. Yes. Be like, listen, baby, this is our big, beautiful life. You, me, Zane, all the kids, the whole clan, all of our hopes and dreams. This is about planning and vision.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

You can vision board around what that looks like for you. And then, oh my gosh, I love you so much. We've been in our money rehab era and prenups and are just a part of that discussion.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

You can vision board around what that looks like for you. And then, oh my gosh, I love you so much. We've been in our money rehab era and prenups and are just a part of that discussion.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

You can vision board around what that looks like for you. And then, oh my gosh, I love you so much. We've been in our money rehab era and prenups and are just a part of that discussion.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

It doesn't sound super bad when you think of it that way, because I think you just reframe it around really what your hopes and your dreams are versus what the scary death destruction outcome could be, because it's not really about that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

It doesn't sound super bad when you think of it that way, because I think you just reframe it around really what your hopes and your dreams are versus what the scary death destruction outcome could be, because it's not really about that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

It doesn't sound super bad when you think of it that way, because I think you just reframe it around really what your hopes and your dreams are versus what the scary death destruction outcome could be, because it's not really about that.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And you have a prenup anyway with the state. The state decides. Oh, right. And you don't want the state to decide. You can if you want to. But ultimately, California gives you a prenup whether you want it or not. Do they? I mean, it dictates the terms of a community property state or if you live somewhere else, it would dictate any terms.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And you have a prenup anyway with the state. The state decides. Oh, right. And you don't want the state to decide. You can if you want to. But ultimately, California gives you a prenup whether you want it or not. Do they? I mean, it dictates the terms of a community property state or if you live somewhere else, it would dictate any terms.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And you have a prenup anyway with the state. The state decides. Oh, right. And you don't want the state to decide. You can if you want to. But ultimately, California gives you a prenup whether you want it or not. Do they? I mean, it dictates the terms of a community property state or if you live somewhere else, it would dictate any terms.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And so I think it's nice to just be able to take control back. from the state and say, okay, whatever, this is how I want it. There have been some interesting guests that we've had who put some crazy clauses in their prenups too.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And so I think it's nice to just be able to take control back. from the state and say, okay, whatever, this is how I want it. There have been some interesting guests that we've had who put some crazy clauses in their prenups too.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

And so I think it's nice to just be able to take control back. from the state and say, okay, whatever, this is how I want it. There have been some interesting guests that we've had who put some crazy clauses in their prenups too.