Nicole Lappin

No, we haven't.

We haven't. And I think part of it is because we haven't talked very seriously about where we want to live in five years. And we have talked about kids, so that's not a question mark so much. I think we would maybe take it a little bit more seriously if we had a certain goal in mind by a certain date. And we don't have that, so we should.

We haven't. And I think part of it is because we haven't talked very seriously about where we want to live in five years. And we have talked about kids, so that's not a question mark so much. I think we would maybe take it a little bit more seriously if we had a certain goal in mind by a certain date. And we don't have that, so we should.

We haven't. And I think part of it is because we haven't talked very seriously about where we want to live in five years. And we have talked about kids, so that's not a question mark so much. I think we would maybe take it a little bit more seriously if we had a certain goal in mind by a certain date. And we don't have that, so we should.

A whole mess of things. I think a little bit of imposter syndrome because I don't come from wealth. A little bit of guilt because I don't come from wealth too. But also those are two kind of bad things that immediately jumped to mind. But also there's good stuff too. Like I feel very lucky and grateful and empowered. So all of those good things too.

A whole mess of things. I think a little bit of imposter syndrome because I don't come from wealth. A little bit of guilt because I don't come from wealth too. But also those are two kind of bad things that immediately jumped to mind. But also there's good stuff too. Like I feel very lucky and grateful and empowered. So all of those good things too.

A whole mess of things. I think a little bit of imposter syndrome because I don't come from wealth. A little bit of guilt because I don't come from wealth too. But also those are two kind of bad things that immediately jumped to mind. But also there's good stuff too. Like I feel very lucky and grateful and empowered. So all of those good things too.

But there's also a little bit of, yeah, like guilt and imposter syndrome mixed in.

But there's also a little bit of, yeah, like guilt and imposter syndrome mixed in.

But there's also a little bit of, yeah, like guilt and imposter syndrome mixed in.

What did you do? When my mom was my age, she was making $35,000 a year and she had me. And so it just feels like I, I don't know, like my mom worked so hard to- provide for me and she helped me pay for college and I don't have debt. And it just, I just feel a little guilty about it. You know, I work hard.

What did you do? When my mom was my age, she was making $35,000 a year and she had me. And so it just feels like I, I don't know, like my mom worked so hard to- provide for me and she helped me pay for college and I don't have debt. And it just, I just feel a little guilty about it. You know, I work hard.

What did you do? When my mom was my age, she was making $35,000 a year and she had me. And so it just feels like I, I don't know, like my mom worked so hard to- provide for me and she helped me pay for college and I don't have debt. And it just, I just feel a little guilty about it. You know, I work hard.

Yeah. Yeah. That's, that's true. That's true. I guess it's like almost like, it feels a little bit more like survivor's guilt where it's like, I didn't do anything wrong, but I am luckier than she was or like have had more opportunities than she did despite her working, you know, just as hard.

Yeah. Yeah. That's, that's true. That's true. I guess it's like almost like, it feels a little bit more like survivor's guilt where it's like, I didn't do anything wrong, but I am luckier than she was or like have had more opportunities than she did despite her working, you know, just as hard.

Yeah. Yeah. That's, that's true. That's true. I guess it's like almost like, it feels a little bit more like survivor's guilt where it's like, I didn't do anything wrong, but I am luckier than she was or like have had more opportunities than she did despite her working, you know, just as hard.

stymied and like sort of struck with inertia around it yeah I think maybe that's why I'm a little why I'm playing with compound interest calculators less for myself I think maybe it's creating a little bit of like avoidant behavior around talking about long-term planning

stymied and like sort of struck with inertia around it yeah I think maybe that's why I'm a little why I'm playing with compound interest calculators less for myself I think maybe it's creating a little bit of like avoidant behavior around talking about long-term planning

stymied and like sort of struck with inertia around it yeah I think maybe that's why I'm a little why I'm playing with compound interest calculators less for myself I think maybe it's creating a little bit of like avoidant behavior around talking about long-term planning

No, it's a really good point.