Nicole McNichols

And this is just from people reaching out to me.

Do you know what pegging is?

Okay, so pegging is when a person takes a strap on, which is kind of like a dildo attached to a harness that you would put around your body, and it would be, say, your female partner using it to penetrate their male partner.

Okay.

Now here's the thing, right?

Let's take pegging, for example.

We think, oh my God, who the fuck is doing this?

That is crazy, right?

Nobody's doing that.

But then you look at research by Justin LaMiller at people's sexual fantasies.

What are the top five sexual fantasies that Americans most commonly report?

Well, homoeroticism and gender bending is up there.

In other words, this idea that we assume different genders or have sex as if we're a different sexual orientation than we actually are, that is a fantasy, is a lot more common than people realize.

Wow.

Yeah.

I don't know if you ever saw White Lotus season three.

Are you a White Lotus fan?

Well, there is a scene between two characters where he admits, one of the characters, that he's always wondered why he went through this phase where he would have sex with like hundreds of women.

They deserve Oscars or whatever the equivalent is for TV.

Amazing monologue.