Niko Emanuilidis
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147 appearances
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
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Could be his business. Could be friends. Doesn't matter. It's not you. And if it's not you and if he's not willing to, I need to take this woman out. Like this is like, oh, my God, this girl's gorgeous. I got to take her out. If he doesn't feel that and isn't making that move quick, you're a roster option potentially.
you want to invest in people who are high interest off the bat, moving it. That doesn't mean a guy who's like, we don't, but we don't want spontaneous. So we don't want a guy that messages you and say, what are you doing tonight? That's too available, right? That's too available. That's being, Oh, I'm eager. Wow. I messaged this girl and she went out with me like the same night.
Like she's, she's crazy about me already, you know? So it's those boundaries of, no, he needs to book with me forever. three, four days in advance. You know, it depends. We could be a little flexible, but don't be super spontaneous with it and prioritize the men who have the high interest in you. I would say that's the biggest thing because red flags on dating apps are like very, very obvious.
Like we all know what that looks like. Don't ignore the obvious red flags, but just prioritize the people who have a high interest.
No, because men are the same at every age. The only difference is how older men might communicate differently than younger men. And the use of the phone is probably a little different. So other than that... The advice is basically the same. Could an older man might have like, you know, maybe he's divorced, maybe has some kids.
So there are some other things that come in the way of his availability. Yeah, but that's a case by case thing that we kind of look at. But more or less, it's the same. Like if he has free time and you're not being prioritized in that free time, you're not a priority. All men are the same. Every age, they're the same.
There's different priorities in their life and things that they have to do based on their age and their life situation and their businesses and whatnot. But more or less like this, the advice I give is applicable to every age.
Yeah. And I think it's one of those things where... It's going to sound really funny. OK, like them shooting up into like a person who's not who wouldn't naturally be in their league. You kind of get more confidence, you know, like when you kind of almost when you completely sell to stepping outside your comfort zone and you just own it.
Nothing to lose. Exactly. There's nothing to lose with a guy your age and you meet this guy your age. He's intimidated and he's a little more shy because he's like, wow, this is like exactly the type of person I'm looking for. And he might not come forth with that same level of confidence where a younger guy with you, it's like, there's nothing to lose here. Like I'm just shooting for the stars.
And if we hit that, that's great.
I think it's equal. I would say it's totally equal. Online dating is a tool to meet people. You can meet people in person. You can meet people online. I mean, nowadays you can meet anyone literally anywhere. I don't think it's any less successful when you meet somebody in person. I mean, you're getting that true initial read right away.
So you'll be able to feel if there's that camera, it kind of saves you some time if you met the person in person. And it's obviously more of like a romantic story than like we met on Bumble, but it's Like dating apps work still. I mean, a lot of people talk badly about them, but dating apps are still successful. You know, I think they're successful.
Well, I would probably say this. To the really high quality guys, most likely like the really high quality guys most likely aren't on dating apps where the high quality women sometimes are. So like a lot of women might find like there are no guys like we're all like the guys I want to see. They're not on dating apps because everybody wants them.
So why would they go on a dating app when they could just open their Instagram and they got like 20 girls DMing them?
It's overwhelming.
Well, if you really think about it, even if we want to talk about social media, because the two things are sort of combined, we aren't meant to see all these people, all these options. We're meant to go out in real life and see people and talk to people in person. So like I said, it's a great tool, but with everything that's amazing, there's always a downside to it.
The downside to it is that it creates a lot of anxiety, creates a lot of depression. It creates a lot of like, uncertainty and frustration. So it's like I said, it's using the tool, but just managing it in a way that works for you. Like, you know, if you really don't like them and they cause you a lot of stress, turn it off, like delete it.
But, but then you better be going out every single day with a big ass smile on your face. talking to every single person you walk by on the street, spreading love, being that beacon of good energy and good vibes.
Because if you're not and you're just miserable, miserable, miserable, no one's going to talk to you and now you don't have a dating app and now no one wants to approach you because you look like a grumpy pants. So if you want to turn off the dating apps, that's fine.
But then you got to completely change your attitude towards how you're entering life and behaving and your energy levels and the frequency you're buzzing at. So like I said, use dating apps as a tool. They're great. But if they're not for you, then we have to look at different methods to finding people. But I think some combination of everything is the best way to go.
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