Niko Emanuilidis
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147 appearances
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
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Like, you know, it goes without saying, you're of course going to be upset that this person you've been in a relationship for a few years breaks up with you. But after that initial grief pass, it's time to move forward because looking back, what's that going to do? You know, unless you're constructively looking back and being like, okay, how could I do things different?
Another very good question. I would say if you're thinking about it all the time, if you're constantly thinking about what if, what if, what if, and waking up just baseline level unhappy, I would always say reflect back and say, when was I the happiest I've ever been? If your answer is two years before I started dating so-and-so, it's like, okay, well, you have a connection with a person.
You have an attraction. There's a chemistry. Like, there was, and of course there is. But now it's more of like a parasitic relationship and a coping relationship, not a thriving one that's growing. So if that phrase, what I just said, resonates with you, I'd really think hard. Are you coping together or are you growing together?
I love it.
Okay.
So a lot of guys struggle in dating. OK, that percentage of men who every woman seems to like, oh, my God, fuck those guys. They're horrible. We're talking about like 10 percent of men. Realistically, it's that top 10 percent of men. They say gets 90 percent of the women like they say. So that's like some quote, something like that. So a lot of men struggle with their confidence.
They're not about their passion and their purpose in their life. They're not fit. They don't really know the proper way to be the most attractive version of themselves. So they tend to kind of just like botch the process by being too needy, too nice guy, which instinctually for women is repulsive. It's repulsive, right?
There's being a kind man, a kind gentleman, and there's being a nice guy, people pleaser. So they tend to kind of...
veer that way their style isn't up to point they're not hitting the gym and they're kind of lost there's a lot of like lost guys out there that are looking to try to like get women as a way to kind of build themselves up and that's why they start to gravitate towards toxic masculinity so it's either fuck women we hate women or it's what could i do to make a woman sleep with me so there's a lot of guys in that middle category that are just either really nice guys who have the potential
To be daddy energy men because they have the right mindset. They just haven't learned game, learned the understanding of attraction. Or there are guys that go too far and they're just like – those are borderline incels. They're like – they hate women and they start to go down a really dark path.
So there's this – I would say a majority of men are either stuck in their nice guy era or maybe trying to come back from a reformed fuckboy era. Those are good guys. Or guys who are like – Screw this. I'm done getting played by women who are just gold diggers. You hear that all the time. Oh, women are gold diggers. Like, dude, you make like 60 grand a year. She's not a gold digger.
You make no money. So men do struggle in dating. And I think there are a lot of men who I'm rambling a little bit, but there are a lot of men who, you know. So emotionally, we're talking about like emotional intelligence.
I think in the man space, like not a lot of guys talk about like what they're upset about and they bottle up feelings and it kind of doesn't allow them to blossom into that best version of themselves or to even feel what being in a healthy relationship is. So there's a lot of problems in the man space. It could be a whole other conversation. It's a combination of men who are
jaded because some women messed them over and now they're going towards the fuck boy area or nice guys who are in their process of self-discovery who are just learning how to be the most attractive versions of themselves and are just sort of in that phase of kind of learning that through their self growth.
I say I would prefer if he messaged you first, but I wouldn't say it's like a rule. When I talk about women making the first move, whether it's online, whether it's Instagram, DMing somebody, whether it's a dating app or in person, just like tapping someone on the shoulder and saying something, it's fine to make the first move. But after that, I always say hands off the wheel.
So you make the move. And then see what he does with it because men aren't stupid. They know like, okay, this woman's talking to me or she messaged me first. She obviously likes me. I think I'm attractive and wants me to do something with it.
If he doesn't do something with it, well, I mean, on a dating app, he wouldn't have a girlfriend, but I mean, I guess these days he might, but he either, if it's in person, he either has a girlfriend or he's not interested. And on a dating app, if he doesn't roll with it, he could be lukewarm interested, but you want a man that if you message him first, he's
takes the wheel and like mess a few messages back and forth. And he's like, I would love to take you out. So you want a man that's like, boom, boom, boom. Let's get off the app. Let's get your phone number. What are you doing this weekend? High interest. We want to deal with people who have high interest in us. So it's okay to make the first move, but you want him to respond with high interest.
And if his response is like, You just chat with him for two weeks and nothing happens. It's kind of, it's lukewarm. It's not, it's probably not going to blossom into anything, but it's okay to make a first move every now and again.
Unless there's like a legitimate reason, like, Hey, I'm about to leave the country for a week and a half. I would love to take you out when I get back then. Okay. But if he's just chatting, chatting, chatting, that's called keeping you on you're on the hook. He's waiting until his schedule opens up enough to take you out. What is he prioritizing instead? Could be other women.
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