Niko Emanuilidis
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
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And it's almost like primal is kind of a weird word, but like sort of where none of the external factors matter. It's just the energy you're getting from this person is just like electric and you automatically sit into that polarity difference. So it's one of two things.
He either needs to be on your level or he just needs to be a guy who just instinctually is just naturally in that sort of masculine energy. And it puts you right into your feminine very easily.
Totally, totally.
Question for you. How long into the relationship did you start seeing that?
Yeah. Okay. So I usually say this. Why also talk about waiting a little bit longer, slower pace, because a man can't hide who he is forever. It's going to come out. So if you get super locked into this relationship with this guy, after just a few weeks or a month, you're, You're going to develop an empathy and this connection to a person who might not be right for you.
And only time will tell that. So then a few months go by, like you said, because you are probably really good at that. You were able to see this guy is not who he said he was, where other people, if they were super locked into that relationship, they'll get to that point and they'll go, he's acting a little weird, but that must be because I'm not doing something. I need to help fix it.
Like that people pleaser mentality, right? I mean, why is he pulling away? Why is he acting weird? I have to fix it. So the slower speed and observing over time, you're allowing your emotions the chance to kind of like go at the same pace as your logical mind instead of letting emotions go and then having the logical kind of keep up.
So this plays exactly into my point of a man can't hide who he is forever. You'll see this around – I would say this is sort of the times we start to see who the person really is. By three months, because I say by three months, you should be boyfriend and girlfriend. So like by three months.
And then I would say between six and eight months is when you get your real true dose of like, okay, I have a really pretty good understanding of who this person is now. And then by like a year, year and a half, you know the person. And then obviously from there, you kind of just get closer.
But by three months, you should know enough about the person where you're like, okay, I'm ready to be in this relationship.
So I would actually see it as the opposite. I think the older you are, I would be okay with the title happening sooner. 30 years old, not boyfriend or girlfriend by three weeks, that's not good. I would say that's not good. But I do always say this, by that month mark, so let's say somewhere between three to five dates, right? You both should feel like you'll know with the right person.
Like this is probably a relationship. Like we're heading towards there. So you're going to feel like really secure and you should feel really secure with the right person that, you know, we're still early. We're still getting to know each other, but. this feels like probably my person or someone I will most likely be in a relationship with. And you won't be wondering.
So if your friend kept bouncing really early, that's because there were some inconsistencies of something that wasn't, she wasn't feeling confident in the way things were going. And she maybe just has a tendency to bounce a little bit early. I mean, I don't know the scenarios, but.
I hear it every single day, but like I said, you can't expedite the process of love. You can't. There's no way to make it move faster. If there's a connection, great. It's still going to take X amount of time for that connection to turn into a serious relationship. You can't expedite it.
So that's a really good question. I mean, I think you need to first things first, get to a place in your life where you would say more or less, I would be just as happy single or in a relationship. And And that might sound like a little harsh and a little like kind of weird, but if you're not able to say that, and obviously after a breakup, you're going to be upset. Okay.
So that month after a breakup, literally cry every single day, all day long, cry as much as you need to cry, attack the feelings head on. And get it all out. Get it all out because after that, you should be so happy about the possibilities moving forward. It's a new era of your life. I don't know if you like Tony Robbins, but I love Tony Robbins. Your life is the life you focus on.
So if you're focused on the negative, oh, my God, we broke up. This is wrong. I'm not going to find somebody else. You're just going to stay miserable, right? Focusing on the positive and this new chapter that you might be entering into is That's going to be super empowering. And, you know, I talk all about just like just empowering yourself and finding that inner confidence and self-esteem.
But breakups are hard. They're always going to be hard. They're never easy. But I would say even if you are in a relationship now and maybe you think it's getting a little rocky or whatnot. Start to try to find like the essence of who you were prior to that because realistically you shouldn't have really lost anything.
But the right person, you're never going to lose who you are to be in a relationship with somebody. If you feel like you are not the same person that you were, that's a big red flag in my opinion. You should be a better version of that self, right? So you just need to get to a place where you could – Say that I would be just as happy and believe it.
And like I said, sometimes it's a fake until you make it. I am going to be just as happy single as it was in a relationship. I don't need somebody else to make me happy. I don't need somebody else. Happiness comes from within. You're in control of that. Really? So how your outlook on life and what you're looking at, are we going to grieve a loss of somebody? Of course.
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