Niko Emanuilidis

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan · #489: Your WORTH, Your RULES: How to Set Boundaries & ATTRACT the Right Person with Niko Emanuilidis, Founder of The Daddy Academy · 14 Jan 2025 podcast

Some people gravitate towards guys who are, don't really show them any attention. And it's being able to acknowledge that and being like, okay, that is my pattern. My patterns, I go this way. So to fix it, I got to reel that back more to the other side, right? I need a little bit more of a healthy balance. The healthiest people are the people who sit more in the middle, right?

You have both sides to your, you've seen both sides, you know how both types of energies feel, right? And you kind of bring yourself back to center. And I think that's a really important part of it is knowing what you're Past pattern is. And I think as far as knowing game for women, it's sort of what I was saying earlier. It's not giving girlfriend access too quickly.

You want to remain a little mysterious, a little hard to get the prize mentality. Men love accomplishing and achieving things that are hard. I mean, at least real men do. They want to accomplish the things that are hard.

So if getting you is super easy and he knows within the first few messages with you that like this girl, this woman's obsessed with me, he'll still like you because you're attractive and he wants to pursue it. But you kind of ruin a little bit of the potential magic where if you're just a little bit harder to get – I'm not talking about playing games.

Just like I said, just controlling the communication and how often you're giving this man access to come see you and whatnot. you can create like a magnet effect where men are just drawn to that. And a way to do that is kind of what you were talking about. You're busy. You're about your passions and your purpose and stuff like that.

And I think that's a really helpful way to stay preoccupied so you're not like hyper-focused on – you know, men and whatnot. So there's like, there's a balance to it, but keeping that prize mentality, but really believing it, but also part of believing is playing a little bit of fake until you make it. So it's like, we can talk about that a little bit, but it's this balance of both.

And like that mentality is attractive and naturally will have guys wanting to quote unquote, like win.

Yeah, I think when I talk about masculine and feminine energies and polarities, I mean it's totally true, but we all have both within us. Like I have masculine and feminine energy. You have masculine and feminine energy. And with the right person, it will balance out correctly. And you need a polarity for there to be a healthy attraction, a healthy relationship. So either way, like –

Either the guy's really masculine and you're feminine or you're really masculine and he's more in his feminine. There needs to be some sort of polarity there for it to work. But with the right man for you, I'm sure you've experienced this. You'll go on like 20 dates and there'll be one guy who you're just like – I feel like I'm the most feminine version of myself.

I don't have to think about anything. I just, I feel just so calm and relaxed and natural with this guy. And it's an amazing feeling. So, I mean, in today's society, I think we lack a lot of true masculine men and we have a lot of toxic masculine men. So it is a little bit harder to come by in that sense today. And especially if you are like a really successful woman,

You are going to find less of that because naturally a guy who's not super successful and say you're more successful than him, he's going to naturally feel the competition there.

And because he doesn't make as much money as you or isn't as popular as you or whatever the case may be, triggers him and leads him to either trying to take you down or you'll just get more of like this closed off feminine energy kind of from him rather than like, just owning. Okay. Yeah. You're successful. Okay. Well, I'm, I'm daddy. It doesn't matter. You know what I mean?

So, but that's a, it's part of a man's journey. Like that's sort of that self journey where I talk about where for guys, you gotta be about your purpose. You gotta make your money.

You gotta be on that life's path because that's where you get your true inner confidence as a man from being about fitness and just being that best version of yourself that you could be so that when you're around women, you're stepping into the most masculine version of yourself. And the masculine isn't a bad word. Feminine isn't a bad word, right?

But it just depends on the context and what, how you actually feel, what you want to be, the type of partner that you want. You know, we all sort of gravitate towards different types of partners and the sort of relationship dynamic and nothing is

But I would say if you're feeling like you're stepping into you're always more feeling, quote unquote, more masculine, you got to determine, is it because I'm not finding the right person or am I coming into these relationships or these first dates or whatever the case may be too much in my logical mind?

And not sitting back and just really focusing on like the feeling I'm getting with this person. It might not change. It might not change. But if you're going in looking for like does he check off this box? Does he check off that box? Like what is he doing? What is this? You're not going to – that's logical thinking where femininity is more just like flowing and sitting back and feeling, feeling.

So there's two parts of it. Like the right person for you will have you stepping more into – where you're supposed to be. And but then there's also that inner work of making sure that you are showing up as the best version of yourself and stepping into the version of yourself, like polarity wise that you want to be as well.

I think that's true. But I also think, I mean, just from talking to you right now, you are perhaps a little bit of a harder person to put in that energy, right? Like it's going to take, there's a small percentage of guys who could make you feel that way. And that's just what it is. I mean it is what it is.

And you're a very successful person and you have your own things going on and you're loving the life you live. You need a guy who's at that level to make you feel that way or just has that inner confidence about himself that none of these things matter and it's just – boom, just like laser connection chemistry.

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