Nina

And, yeah, I think she might have been joking, but what she said is, it's okay, I don't date winners anyway.

And I don't know why, but for some reason, that just kind of rubbed me the wrong way, and I couldn't really shake it the rest of the day.

That kind of felt like she called me a loser, which I just missed a shot at pool, but...

She kept saying, it's a joke, relax, I'm kidding.

But the damage was kind of done.

It really kind of felt like weirdly competitive or weirdly kind of a dig.

And I don't know.

I mean, I've had some bad dating history where people have been kind of not the kindest to me.

So I don't know.

For some reason, it really rubbed me the wrong way.

Okay.

Because she called you a loser?

I mean, essentially.

Well, thanks.

Yeah.

Um, but that, that, that is kind of, you know, the thing that really made me give, it just gave me pause about whether or not I wanted to see her again.

So I've been marinating on the idea.

It is, it doesn't make you feel kind of takes the wind out of your sails or your confidence, if you know what I mean.

For sure.

But you got to feel good now knowing that she doesn't think you're a loser because she wants to know why you're ghosting her.