Nir Eyal

Because if that doesn't happen... Then I'll be resentful, yeah.

So now, you're offloading.

It's because you keep telling me, I keep telling people, stop calling me late.

Can't control that.

What you can control is your interpretation of that.

What you can control, what is in your control...

is being on time, which it sounds like you're working on, which is fantastic.

That's something that's important to you.

It's one of your values to be seen as someone who has personal integrity, right?

If I show up on time, I deliver the goods on time, I pay my bills on time, I'm reliable, I have integrity, that's you.

I know you, that's you.

This is one weird quirk about your behavior, but 99% of you is someone who lives with personal integrity.

You would've gotten this far if you didn't have personal integrity.

So it's this weird little quirk.

But asking others

to do something, to change, and making that dependent on, well, I can't change unless they do, that's going to be a long road.

Yeah.

Is it?

So what can you do differently, you think?

Beautiful.