Noel King

What are you guys actually agreeing to do or divvy up?

When you let other people know, if indeed you did, that you had a prenup, did you feel any stigma attached to it?

One argument that I've seen about prenups is that it takes...

Let me put this delicately because you guys have not been married for very long.

Like it takes some of the romance out of the idea that you're going to be together forever because you're what's the word you're like hedging your bets kind of.

Is there any part of the argument that this is just like not romantic that resonates with you at all?

That's Cara and Gregory in Florida.

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Coming up, what is behind the rise in prenups?

What got you thinking and writing about prenups?

Here's why Devin from Love is Blind should definitely take his fiancee, Virginia, up on her offer for a prenup.

You have laid out what my understanding of a prenup always was, which is there's a rich guy.

He's coming to the marriage with all the money.

The woman has no or less money.

And so the idea is basically like, I'm going to protect myself from this woman just in case.

Very gendered scenario that I just laid out, but I also think rooted in some truth.

You said it was a woman on Love is Blind who was like, I want a prenup and she didn't have money.

So what are the differences that we're seeing here?

I wonder about something.

When you were learning about the details of people's prenups, what surprised you?