Noelle

I know how it looks.

Yeah.

I've definitely been in that situation when I was young where my boyfriend at the time

felt you know jealous or insecure or whatever it may be because we're also very young and subconsciously like I dropped my friends so I can be a good girlfriend and like hang out with it wasn't like oh you need to drop them but like oh like what are you doing I'm worried about you I want to spend all my time with you and that way I didn't have time for my other friends and

I never got those friends back.

And I've also been dropped by one of the guys in the group because he had a girlfriend and all of a sudden I just was blocked on everything.

And I think that's also like affected me where it's like I wouldn't ever drop anyone because of a relationship, but I know where to draw the lines in the sand.

I agree.

Yeah.

That would be definitely inappropriate.

I think I'm, I think it's, I've been friends with these people since I was like 17.

So that plays a factor too.

Like we've all seen each other like grow up a bit.

And if I met these people maybe like a year ago, I wouldn't be, it wouldn't be so hard for me to just be like, oh, it's no big deal.

Yeah, I mean, I definitely wouldn't mention like certain things coming in like, hey, by the way, we go on these trips and, you know, I'm a little flurry.

When you put it like that.

Yeah.

Yeah, this is definitely, definitely helpful.

I will stop mentioning it like early on.

I think like, I don't want to waste my time.