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Ore Oduba

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On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

But your team got in touch.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And the reason I snubbed you, I snubbed the team because there was so much that I had to do to get to the point of feeling like I was ready to speak about what had been my entire life, a thread for 30 years through my entire life.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

But I guess I always had this difficult relationship with being in the public eye, but I had no relationship with being an addict in the public eye.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

So coming on what I think, you know, you and your team, you have created an incredible space.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It really is like the leading space in addiction.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

You are an incredible voice and you're an incredible advocate and people feel safe coming to you and everything that comes out of your, your podcasts is so resonant.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I was like, I don't know where I fit in that yet.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I just need to find the place that I can blurt it out.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And then the intention is after doing that interview, and I eventually did it with Paul Brunson on their Need to Talk podcast, I was going to do one or two, and then I was going to hide in a bunker for six months, never to be seen.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And then hope that the conversation around...

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

adult explicit imagery and content would change.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And here we are kind of approaching nine months later, and I am still gratefully talking about it because the problem is so great.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It's so uncovered and undiscussed, but the harm is ripping through us societally.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I realized I picked up a baton.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I was like, I think I need to run with this because it doesn't stop until we really get to the root of the problem.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Well, kind of by default and not design, I guess I've become a bit of a voice on the harms of...

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

The world of pornography and adult explicit material.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Last November, I publicly spoke for the first time about having had an addiction to pornography for 30 years, having been introduced to it at the age of nine.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It was the most terrifying chapter of my life.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I had already by that point been through a lot from two immediate family bereavements, divorce.