Paige

but like, it just throws me back to that.

And I thought I had managed it, but there's like triggers.

And I know those are my triggers.

Yes.

Okay.

And my husband, when we were dating, cause we had talked a little bit, I had my daughter, we started dating at when she was about eight months.

So I had my daughter before we had gotten together.

And, um, we had talked like a little bit about parenting, but, and like at that time we were on the same page, but like with every single kid, it's kind of changed.

Yeah.

And, but his father,

view on it hasn't changed and whenever we talked about it when we were dating i thought he was over exaggerating and he was like well my dad drop kicked me and i'm fine and i was like i reacted to it i was like um that's that's not okay but all right well here's how i know he's not fine he allows a five-year-old to enrage him to the point of of hitting

And, I mean, at that point, I would have drawn the line and something would have had to happen.

Um...

Sometimes, yes, whenever he's frustrated, but he's not like, it doesn't really get aggressive in that way.

It just goes towards like cussing and verbal, but it's never towards me.

It hasn't ever been towards me.

Okay.

Okay.

And I usually just shut down because.

No.