Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
which is destructive.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
It's the thought of, I see something that you have that I don't have, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
And instead of me working for it or accepting that I don't have it, what I'd like to do then is bring you down, take you down to where I am, and then I'll feel better, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Because from the perspective of envy, it is all...
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Relative.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
No, I think that jealousy is a natural just part of the human phenomenon that we go through life and we see like, oh, I'd like to have that.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
I think it's part of our incentives, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
If I'm farming and I have one row of crops and I look over and I see that you're working harder and you have two and I'd like to have two, that can make me work harder to have two.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
No, because I think there are things that are in us as humans, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
So the things that just by being human, like we can, for example, feel, we can feel compassion, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
We can feel interest, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
We can feel jealousy in that benign sense.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Like it's all part of just being human.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
If we start going from, hey, you have more crops than I have, and you know, it seems like I actually have a better life in a lot of ways than I have.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
I'm going to kill you.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
That's not...
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
that is not a progression of something benign, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
you're right in that there's a causal, there can be a causal chain, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Like if I'm not feeling jealous, maybe I won't ever feel envious, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 โ Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
So you can see, okay, so it can kind of lead to, it can open gates to, huh, like how much do I dislike that you have things that I don't have, right?