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Paul Conti

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Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Ortega y Gasset said, I'm myself and my circumstances.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

We can't control everything.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

We live in circumstances around us, but within those circumstances, we can make decisions and define ourselves.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

And I think the brilliance of that, and I think tying it all together, right, in a way that's not trying to be, in a sense it ties it all together by not trying to answer everything concisely.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

That yes, we can make meaning.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Like we see that.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

If someone trips in front of me, I could walk around them or I could help them up.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

I mean, no one can tell me that it doesn't matter what I do.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

I absolutely reject the idea that, oh, I could step over them or on them, or I could help them up and it doesn't matter.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Oh yeah, try being the person on the ground.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Right?

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

So we create meaning, but we live in our circumstances and there are absurdities both within us and outside of us in our social structures.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

And there are a lot of things that pretend to have meaning that don't.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

And there's the shades of nihilism, but ultimately there's something going on here that's doing the best we can in the context of just not knowing.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

And we can look at that and just kind of marvel and go, huh.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Which I think is a relation to at least a lot of what we in the Western world think of as Eastern, as non-attachment.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

Because then if there's something absurd,

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

and it's like not good for me, then I accept that too instead of getting angry about it and railing about it or seeing some cosmic meaning in it.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

I think there's also a healthy non-attachment in what you're saying too.

Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 – Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil

I think it is a fundamental part of life.