Paul

Awesome.

So what's up, brother?

So my question is,

Is it worth trying to preserve my friendship with the man who slept with my wife?

God, no!

So, I mean, this is someone that I've known since high school.

Yeah, you're right.

Yeah, that's where I feel like I'm at.

December 23rd, got home early from work.

I was on night shift at the time.

And his car was in my driveway, and I walked in my house, walked in my bedroom, and they were in the bedroom.

I didn't catch them in the act, but when they're both in their underwear, you kind of just assume what's been going on.

My wife is not wanting to patch things up.

We're in the middle of the divorce paperwork is filed.

We're in the middle of the 30-day wait period.

And through this person, my wife has not shown nearly as much remorse as he has.

And through him, I know probably roughly 20 people.

And it's difficult because excising him from my life is going to obviously put a little bit of a blockade

in my relationship with other people as well.

It's bad because I had a conversation with him roughly a year ago.