Pepper

So for me, it's easy.

But that was something that he was always shy about.

His his first wife was like, oh, my God, you not happening.

So he just did it secretly in his own head.

You know what I mean?

And I'm completely cool with everything, guys.

always have that oh i'm a masculine guy i'm not gay i'm never switching swords or whatever and i'm like you can if you want to i really don't care you know what i mean like you want to suck a guy's dick go ahead it's not going to make me feel any kind of way like i kind of believe that we all have our sexual proclivities and it doesn't really mean anything it's just sex like

We all think about things.

We just, some of us won't do them.

Well, I'm going to do them.

yeah and the thing about that is is people can't control their fetish and at the end of the day it's just a sexual attraction and making them feel worse about it is not helping anyone's relationship and i've always told my husband like i don't understand

how you could live your life in a marriage for 20 years hiding half of who you are because essentially that's who you are you're sexually attracted to this and she made you feel guilty about it why should you feel guilty about thinking something is sexy like i think men's arms are sexy and the veins they get in their arms why i don't know i think it's sexy you know what i mean

He can't do anything about that.

I can't do anything about that either.

It's just something that in your head clicks and says, wow, that's fucking hot.

Yeah.

But, you know.

But guys get in their heads because some woman at some point said, ew, that's gross.

And I'm just like, why is that gross, dude?

You don't understand how many things I have seen on the internet.