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Pete Wright

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All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Well, that was...

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

The only name that jumps into my head right now is Rorschach, who absolutely did not have the hierarchy.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

He was that horrible painter.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

People are yelling at their phones right now.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Oh, my God.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Maslow.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Maslow.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

That's right.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Okay, go ahead.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

So Robin Dunbar is a British anthropologist who in the 90s was looking at the relationship between the primate brain size and social group size.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

So bigger brain, bigger group.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And he ran this math on humans and landed on 150.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

150 is the maximum number of meaningful relationships our brains can manage at any given time, right?

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Got it.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

That is Dunbar's number.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

three decades of scrutiny.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

But 150 is just the outer ring, if you imagine it like a target, like a darts target.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

You know what targets are.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Dunbar's real insight is that... Dunbar's real gig is imagining our friendships that exist in layers, like concentric circles, you know, back to the dartboard.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Or rings on a tree, you might add.