Pete Wright
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And the second best day is, I don't know tomorrow.
I don't know how that aphorism goes.
Yeah.
Okay.
Sure.
If you want to say it like a real boob, um,
It just means that it's trying to really emphasize the importance of having close friendships, of having relationships.
Even early on.
That are long term, right?
Sure.
Because what you're building is closer friendships that don't fray under strain.
They are mature friendships over decades.
Right.
And those friendships, even when you go, you know, many, many months without contact, you find they don't strain.
It feels like no time has passed.
Everybody, we know that feeling.
The thing that matters most, this is my second point here, the thing that matters most is not a grand gesture.
This is what you were talking about before, right?
It's what the researchers call maintenance behaviors.
Putting a real nerd hat on the embarrassingly simple concept that you just illustrated.