Peter Crone

Yeah. So one level, you can look at that as a great asset, like I have the same, right? So I make a distinction between being highly observant and being vigilant. They both carry the capacity to really be very present with your surroundings and be very aware. Like you've got this keen eye where you can notice, as you said, these little subtleties.

I notice when someone's breathing pattern changes when I'm talking to them, right? So I can see different softness in their face, you know, sometimes when they've sort of let go of a constraint. But being observant, most people are observant, but from a place of previous need to survive. So their powers of observation have got this underlying current of fear, and that's vigilant.

I notice when someone's breathing pattern changes when I'm talking to them, right? So I can see different softness in their face, you know, sometimes when they've sort of let go of a constraint. But being observant, most people are observant, but from a place of previous need to survive. So their powers of observation have got this underlying current of fear, and that's vigilant.

I notice when someone's breathing pattern changes when I'm talking to them, right? So I can see different softness in their face, you know, sometimes when they've sort of let go of a constraint. But being observant, most people are observant, but from a place of previous need to survive. So their powers of observation have got this underlying current of fear, and that's vigilant.

So I would assert, not wrong or right, that much of your capacity to see things was, and maybe still is, informed a little bit by fear. Where you're trying to get everything right, or you're wanting to have things a certain way.

So I would assert, not wrong or right, that much of your capacity to see things was, and maybe still is, informed a little bit by fear. Where you're trying to get everything right, or you're wanting to have things a certain way.

So I would assert, not wrong or right, that much of your capacity to see things was, and maybe still is, informed a little bit by fear. Where you're trying to get everything right, or you're wanting to have things a certain way.

Yes. Which, again, control is a behavior. Mm-hmm.

Yes. Which, again, control is a behavior. Mm-hmm.

Yes. Which, again, control is a behavior. Mm-hmm.

is where there's an underlying feeling of insecurity where you you don't you got hurt before when things were out of your control so now i'm not going to be hurt again so i'm going to make sure that i control everything that i can which is really just perpetuating the previous hurt as opposed to experiencing the hurt allowing it and then stepping into what is literally a brand new day every day

is where there's an underlying feeling of insecurity where you you don't you got hurt before when things were out of your control so now i'm not going to be hurt again so i'm going to make sure that i control everything that i can which is really just perpetuating the previous hurt as opposed to experiencing the hurt allowing it and then stepping into what is literally a brand new day every day

is where there's an underlying feeling of insecurity where you you don't you got hurt before when things were out of your control so now i'm not going to be hurt again so i'm going to make sure that i control everything that i can which is really just perpetuating the previous hurt as opposed to experiencing the hurt allowing it and then stepping into what is literally a brand new day every day

No, I don't even like the word. No, because again, I say, please don't become perfect. You'll have no one to relate to.

No, I don't even like the word. No, because again, I say, please don't become perfect. You'll have no one to relate to.

No, I don't even like the word. No, because again, I say, please don't become perfect. You'll have no one to relate to.

Right. So that's a adaptation. It's a strategy that the ego will use because the ego doesn't accept itself. I've gotten to a point where I'm just okay being me, you know, and people are going to think whatever they want to think.

Right. So that's a adaptation. It's a strategy that the ego will use because the ego doesn't accept itself. I've gotten to a point where I'm just okay being me, you know, and people are going to think whatever they want to think.

Right. So that's a adaptation. It's a strategy that the ego will use because the ego doesn't accept itself. I've gotten to a point where I'm just okay being me, you know, and people are going to think whatever they want to think.

And I'm compassionate. I'm loving. I'm kind. I don't in any way claim to be perfect in every arena of life. I'm sure, you know, I've lost money on the stock market. I could have done better there. You know, like, am I really diligent all the time with my workouts? No, but I'm pretty damn good. You know, there's going to be room for improvement in all areas of my life.