Peter Crone
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So if someone is in an environment where they think they're not good enough, fill in the blank, because one of my baseball players, he could go four for five in a baseball game, which is amazing. He got four hits out of five at bats.
But he was still miserable in the locker room. People don't understand why, because as a kid, his dad would always tell him, well, what happened to the fifth at bat? So that's still the continuation of that feeling that he still wasn't enough.
But he was still miserable in the locker room. People don't understand why, because as a kid, his dad would always tell him, well, what happened to the fifth at bat? So that's still the continuation of that feeling that he still wasn't enough.
But he was still miserable in the locker room. People don't understand why, because as a kid, his dad would always tell him, well, what happened to the fifth at bat? So that's still the continuation of that feeling that he still wasn't enough.
So for most people in the realm of I'm not enough at the deepest level, that will inform perfectionism, people pleasing, hard work, A-type drive, you know, that people are trying to compensate for. So if I'm not something, typically the way that the brain reacts to that is I'll try and become something. Do you see? I'm not something because that's something you want that. You want to be good.
So for most people in the realm of I'm not enough at the deepest level, that will inform perfectionism, people pleasing, hard work, A-type drive, you know, that people are trying to compensate for. So if I'm not something, typically the way that the brain reacts to that is I'll try and become something. Do you see? I'm not something because that's something you want that. You want to be good.
So for most people in the realm of I'm not enough at the deepest level, that will inform perfectionism, people pleasing, hard work, A-type drive, you know, that people are trying to compensate for. So if I'm not something, typically the way that the brain reacts to that is I'll try and become something. Do you see? I'm not something because that's something you want that. You want to be good.
So I'm not that. Again, people aren't thinking I'm not good. They're thinking all sorts of things. Why can't I get a raise? Or why am I not making enough money? Or why can't I attract a good mate? That's all on top of the feeling of inadequacy. So then it's the compensations to become good or better. The darker side of I'm not good enough is I am bad.
So I'm not that. Again, people aren't thinking I'm not good. They're thinking all sorts of things. Why can't I get a raise? Or why am I not making enough money? Or why can't I attract a good mate? That's all on top of the feeling of inadequacy. So then it's the compensations to become good or better. The darker side of I'm not good enough is I am bad.
So I'm not that. Again, people aren't thinking I'm not good. They're thinking all sorts of things. Why can't I get a raise? Or why am I not making enough money? Or why can't I attract a good mate? That's all on top of the feeling of inadequacy. So then it's the compensations to become good or better. The darker side of I'm not good enough is I am bad.
And that's typically where people have grown up in a little bit more of a harsh environment where they were dismissed or they were really treated like shit or they were around an alcoholic parent and they were beaten.
And that's typically where people have grown up in a little bit more of a harsh environment where they were dismissed or they were really treated like shit or they were around an alcoholic parent and they were beaten.
And that's typically where people have grown up in a little bit more of a harsh environment where they were dismissed or they were really treated like shit or they were around an alcoholic parent and they were beaten.
And so sadly, although the not good enough can still be really painful and can lead to sickness and disease and dysfunction and all sorts, most people are at least striving to do better. Somebody who's I'm bad tends to really become the addicts and the sort of really self-defeating homeless, eventually maybe like really destructive behaviors because you're saying I am something derogatory.
And so sadly, although the not good enough can still be really painful and can lead to sickness and disease and dysfunction and all sorts, most people are at least striving to do better. Somebody who's I'm bad tends to really become the addicts and the sort of really self-defeating homeless, eventually maybe like really destructive behaviors because you're saying I am something derogatory.
And so sadly, although the not good enough can still be really painful and can lead to sickness and disease and dysfunction and all sorts, most people are at least striving to do better. Somebody who's I'm bad tends to really become the addicts and the sort of really self-defeating homeless, eventually maybe like really destructive behaviors because you're saying I am something derogatory.
And so that's where it becomes, well, fuck it. And the woe and then self-fulfilling prophecy of like, well, who gives a shit anyway? And that's where people can sabotage their lives to a really detrimental level.
And so that's where it becomes, well, fuck it. And the woe and then self-fulfilling prophecy of like, well, who gives a shit anyway? And that's where people can sabotage their lives to a really detrimental level.
And so that's where it becomes, well, fuck it. And the woe and then self-fulfilling prophecy of like, well, who gives a shit anyway? And that's where people can sabotage their lives to a really detrimental level.
I'm not loved. A lot of people have that one. Really? Yeah, a lot of people.