Peter Crone

And I work with a guy I've never met before, 46, 48 year old guy from India. And he'd submitted a question like a lot of people and I just randomly picked. And he was struggling with self-esteem, anxiety, and a lot of anger, particularly towards his loved ones, which tends to be, you know, sadly the case when people struggle with that.

And I work with a guy I've never met before, 46, 48 year old guy from India. And he'd submitted a question like a lot of people and I just randomly picked. And he was struggling with self-esteem, anxiety, and a lot of anger, particularly towards his loved ones, which tends to be, you know, sadly the case when people struggle with that.

And you could see, like even for me, the fatigue in his face, like the dark circles under his eyes, the sadness, the fatigue that is upon him knowing he's a good guy and he doesn't want to hurt people that he loves. He even said that he'd just blown up at his oldest son and almost said to his son, I hope you don't grow up to be like me. You know, you can feel like the shame in that, right?

And you could see, like even for me, the fatigue in his face, like the dark circles under his eyes, the sadness, the fatigue that is upon him knowing he's a good guy and he doesn't want to hurt people that he loves. He even said that he'd just blown up at his oldest son and almost said to his son, I hope you don't grow up to be like me. You know, you can feel like the shame in that, right?

And you could see, like even for me, the fatigue in his face, like the dark circles under his eyes, the sadness, the fatigue that is upon him knowing he's a good guy and he doesn't want to hurt people that he loves. He even said that he'd just blown up at his oldest son and almost said to his son, I hope you don't grow up to be like me. You know, you can feel like the shame in that, right?

There's a guy who wants to be a good dad, but he doesn't even know why he blows up. And so to be able to reverse engineer that and help him see that he fundamentally thought who he was was bad. Like, he's not walking around going, I'm bad. He's walking around going, I'm an asshole of a father because I just blew up on my kids, right?

There's a guy who wants to be a good dad, but he doesn't even know why he blows up. And so to be able to reverse engineer that and help him see that he fundamentally thought who he was was bad. Like, he's not walking around going, I'm bad. He's walking around going, I'm an asshole of a father because I just blew up on my kids, right?

There's a guy who wants to be a good dad, but he doesn't even know why he blows up. And so to be able to reverse engineer that and help him see that he fundamentally thought who he was was bad. Like, he's not walking around going, I'm bad. He's walking around going, I'm an asshole of a father because I just blew up on my kids, right?

But the I'm bad was the foundation that allows that behavior to be perpetuated through every arena of his life. So once we... Then we investigate the validity of that. Like, where did that come from? When he was slapped as a kid in a very traditional Indian family where he was sort of, you know, seen and not heard and scolded and shamed and all the things he did was wrong. And...

But the I'm bad was the foundation that allows that behavior to be perpetuated through every arena of his life. So once we... Then we investigate the validity of that. Like, where did that come from? When he was slapped as a kid in a very traditional Indian family where he was sort of, you know, seen and not heard and scolded and shamed and all the things he did was wrong. And...

But the I'm bad was the foundation that allows that behavior to be perpetuated through every arena of his life. So once we... Then we investigate the validity of that. Like, where did that come from? When he was slapped as a kid in a very traditional Indian family where he was sort of, you know, seen and not heard and scolded and shamed and all the things he did was wrong. And...

But then to see that it's not a truth, right? That's what you went through. And it's hard for a kid. And I can understand why you thought you're a bad kid, but it's not an actual truth. And to see his face on the other side of that, realizing, as I ask everybody, is it true, whatever the constraint is, like in his case, is it true that you're bad? And he really got it. It's not a truth.

But then to see that it's not a truth, right? That's what you went through. And it's hard for a kid. And I can understand why you thought you're a bad kid, but it's not an actual truth. And to see his face on the other side of that, realizing, as I ask everybody, is it true, whatever the constraint is, like in his case, is it true that you're bad? And he really got it. It's not a truth.

But then to see that it's not a truth, right? That's what you went through. And it's hard for a kid. And I can understand why you thought you're a bad kid, but it's not an actual truth. And to see his face on the other side of that, realizing, as I ask everybody, is it true, whatever the constraint is, like in his case, is it true that you're bad? And he really got it. It's not a truth.

But it becomes so part of him, it's not even a thought. People talk about limiting beliefs. That's also not it. It's a subconscious foundation of his whole identity. And when you pull that from beneath someone, I mean, the joy that was on his face was palpable.

But it becomes so part of him, it's not even a thought. People talk about limiting beliefs. That's also not it. It's a subconscious foundation of his whole identity. And when you pull that from beneath someone, I mean, the joy that was on his face was palpable.

But it becomes so part of him, it's not even a thought. People talk about limiting beliefs. That's also not it. It's a subconscious foundation of his whole identity. And when you pull that from beneath someone, I mean, the joy that was on his face was palpable.

There wasn't a dry eye on the Zoom, you know, because people could feel, they can relate to like, wow, like he spent 40-something years thinking that who he is as a person is bad. And that's, you know, that's how most people go through life. And then they have the myriad of forms of escape, right? Some street drugs to medication to food to, you know, whatever it is that impacts their life. So...

There wasn't a dry eye on the Zoom, you know, because people could feel, they can relate to like, wow, like he spent 40-something years thinking that who he is as a person is bad. And that's, you know, that's how most people go through life. And then they have the myriad of forms of escape, right? Some street drugs to medication to food to, you know, whatever it is that impacts their life. So...

There wasn't a dry eye on the Zoom, you know, because people could feel, they can relate to like, wow, like he spent 40-something years thinking that who he is as a person is bad. And that's, you know, that's how most people go through life. And then they have the myriad of forms of escape, right? Some street drugs to medication to food to, you know, whatever it is that impacts their life. So...