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Phil Fernbach

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
507 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

We often speak about that something can be true or false.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Most complex issues, what goes into a fact or a statistic or whatever it is, there's a lot of background and context that determines what that fact or statistic means.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And so part of the discussion is,

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

really has to get pretty deep, I think, in terms of understanding exactly what that fact is and what it's predicated based on.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I think that most people are generally reasonable, but some people are unreasonable.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And if someone is unreasonable and they're unwilling to actually engage in that deeper discussion about what the fact means, and they just want to assert that as true, regardless of anything else, then maybe that's not a great person to have political discussions with.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Maybe you should talk about something else.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Yeah, the flat earthers are a great example and really fun to talk about because the core overarching belief is preposterous.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

But what I found when I was at this conference was that it's based on a whole set of

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

knowledge and facts within this community that they believe they have established.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And what you find when you get into this is that individual facts are hard to refute because there's so much that goes into it.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And I myself am not an expert, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I can't tell you what an eclipse should look like from a certain vantage point on the face of the earth or whatever it

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

the relevant fact is.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

That's really difficult for me to do.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And so I didn't go in there with a goal of trying to convince those people that they are wrong.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I don't think that that's the correct goal in a dialogue most of the time.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

The goal should be to try to develop a deeper understanding of where the belief comes from.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And so I found that to be more productive.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Asking these people about, oh,