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Phil Fernbach

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Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And that determination can be pretty challenging because to take a position on an issue, it's just not practical to study it as if you were going to get a PhD in that topic.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

At the same time, to jump to some really strong opinion based on nothing, based on, you know, having read half of one article or seen one post on Twitterβ€”

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

That's also really bad, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So what we need to be able to do is find some common ground, some middle path, as you said.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And exactly where that middle path lies, that determination is a pretty tricky one.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

But if we get in the habit of trying to aim for somewhere in the middle of that distribution, I think that people are pretty reasonable and we can do it.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So having a little more discrimination and deliberation than we normally do, but not going so far to think that we need to know everything about a topic or an issue before we have a position on it.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Somewhere in the middle, you're going to be better off than where you are right now.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I think absolutely.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And this is a habit that I've gotten in myself, which is practicing checking your understanding.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Nevio asked if there's a way to stop the illusion.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I don't think there's a way to stop the illusion.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

What I think we can do is we can experience the illusion and then we can mentally calibrate after we've experienced it.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So when I jump to a strong position on something,

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I can habitually ask myself after that to try to explain, to really test whether I know what I'm talking about.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And then when you notice that there's a big gap,

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

sort of make a mental note of that.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Maybe even write it down and see how many times that's occurring over the course of your day.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And I still, you know, I've been studying this topic for many, many years.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And I can promise your listeners that I fall for this all the time still.