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Professor Bobby Smyth

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
94 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

By 17, 18, I would say most teenagers have been in a situation whereby they've had the option of using cannabis.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Lots will have decided not to.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

But most will have been in a situation where they could have used.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

So all the more reason then at the age of 14, 15, ideally it needs to be parts of conversations.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

There's no simple, really simple answer, but obviously the ones who are more inclined to rush in and give it a go are the ones who are a bit more impulsive, a bit more blind to risk, as teenagers tend to be on average relative to us as adults, and that's partly brain development as well.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Other teenagers, though, are more instinctively cautious.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

They're more inclined to just stick with the rules if the rule has been provided.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Yeah, potentially, particularly if they know that maybe their parents are sort of, they see their parents as open minded and tolerant about a little bit of risk taking based on past experience.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Yeah, certainly on average, it's kids where they grow up in homes where there's less rules, there's less structure, they're more likely to make the unhealthy choices.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

I suppose that's an extra reason to begin having conversations about what's happening out and about.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

And I think it may be hard to ask a kid, do you take drugs or have you used drugs?

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

But ask them, do they ever see people who are using drugs?

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Do any of their mates ever talk about drugs or vapes?

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

To be curious and to try and have conversations and see where that conversation goes.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

And I suppose to try to stay calm in that conversation, that if they sort of say, oh, yeah, if they mention someone who vapes or does something that you're worried about, don't leap in and sort of say, I don't want you ever doing that.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

To try to have a conversation to help them think through the pros and cons of that and maybe remind them why.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

why you've given past advice that you think this is a bad idea and your hope that they continue to make wise choices.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

The moment you become, if anger's taken over you, then you've sort of lost the conversation, I suppose.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

They're gone.

The Claire Byrne Show
Approaching summer holidays as a parent of a teen!

Your challenge is to try to be calm.