Quinlan Walther
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
That's an example of a real boundary.
Not, hey, you better leave because I told you that I wasn't cool with this.
And so if you go to the bar, I'm not going to talk to you and you're going to.
No, it was his rule.
She got to opt in or opt out.
That's a boundary.
Leave each other alone.
Yes.
Well, the politics is something that I actually disagree with.
A lot of people say you can't be with someone who has a differing political view than you.
And I disagree in most cases if we understand the why and the values behind.
OK, so we can take any of these situations as an example.
We can use the bar.
We can use the time you want to go to bed.
We can use politics.
Do you know why those things are important to you?
Why is it important?
What's the value behind not going to a bar if you're in a relationship without your spouse?
What's the value behind going to sleep at 9 o'clock versus 2 o'clock in the morning?
What is the value behind having liberal views or having conservative views?