Rachel Cruz

So she has two older brothers in the same situation who are 31 and 29.

And they're still in school?

Yeah, also still in school, never worked.

No, not at this particular moment.

So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was.

I didn't know their work history or anything.

Just recently found out that none of them have worked.

And we've been dating a year.

So we started talking about marriage and finances.

And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan?

And what's her plan?

And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her

Cause we were talking about this and I work full time.

I have a very stable job and been doing that for a while.

Debt-free kind of,

whole nine yards there, but I asked her to get a part-time job during the summer next semester to kind of get some financial freedom away from her parents.

Yeah, that was my tester to see if she was willing to put in some effort because I'm

I want to make things work, but if I'm expected to take 100% of the financial burden for the next 50 years, I don't know if I can handle that.

She's had to retake a lot of classes where she's... Failed?

Says she wants to get into like a master's, PhD program.