Rachel Cruze

It just turns into a mess.

So,

No, I mean, I wouldn't accept it.

I'm with you, Jade.

Because, again, I'm assuming by accepting this amount of money, he's going to want legal ownership of the home to be put on the title.

So, yeah, it's a no for me.

And, yeah, I mean, the fact you guys are living together before marriage, which is becoming more and more common, and if he wants to pay you rent and you guys have a roommate-type relationship,

Relationship too, you can do that.

It just gets really messy really fast.

And from a relational level, I will tell you, studies are coming out more and more as well to show that actually divorce rates are much lower if you don't live together before.

And the quality of marriage and the quality of relationship and everything is different when you're not just playing house and then deciding to finally commit.

you actually go through the stages, which is more old school, but it's showing more and more from a relational standpoint, it's more stable.

So, and again, that's not what you asked Layla, but I'm with Jade.

I wouldn't, I wouldn't accept it.

Yeah.

And therefore I'm not going to answer the question.

It's all love.

All right.

Let's go to Jay in Atlanta, Georgia.

Hi, Jay.