Rachel Cruze

Because Kim, to Jade's point is so good because Kim goes with Kim.

And if Kim stays the same and you're staying consistent and you get a million dollars in your lap,

you continue to be Kim with a million dollars.

And right now we know there's a better version of Kim.

So if we can get a better version, a healthier version of Kim, and then even you make the call in a year or two to sell the house.

Well, we have hardworking up and out of Kim who's, you know what I mean?

Self-sustaining with a million dollars, which means you're going to be making really clear decisions when it comes to money.

I think you still are in that fog, which again,

I do not fault you for.

I think when you walk through a divorce, that grief is horrific.

And having seven kids that you're still thinking about.

I mean, all of it, it's very, very difficult.

So the fact that you're still grieving, I would not shame you for that.

And I don't think you need to be shaming yourself.

I think give yourself the freedom to still feel and experience what you're experiencing.

But we also have to start making some moves

to create a positivity around us.

And I think part of that is getting some quick wins.

And I really do think there's a self-esteem boost when you earn and you do something and there's a cause and effect and you know, I can do this because you can kill.

You really, really can.