Rachel Cruze
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It's like an iPhone. It's been three years. Yeah. And I think for the older ones, Lane, there's, you know, a lot of having... to learn just in the in the real world, right? If they're not choosing to make right decisions right now, you can't force that you can't control that, especially with the older ones that are out of the house.
And so, again, I think a conversation is totally doable of just saying, here's what you're saying, you're trying to create better habits in your own life. But it's hard. And you know, telling them, yeah, I get it. It is hard, because, You know, Lane, you're even struggling with it, right? We all do to an extent. Like, you know, this money stuff, it's not always easy.
And so, again, I think a conversation is totally doable of just saying, here's what you're saying, you're trying to create better habits in your own life. But it's hard. And you know, telling them, yeah, I get it. It is hard, because, You know, Lane, you're even struggling with it, right? We all do to an extent. Like, you know, this money stuff, it's not always easy.
And so, again, I think a conversation is totally doable of just saying, here's what you're saying, you're trying to create better habits in your own life. But it's hard. And you know, telling them, yeah, I get it. It is hard, because, You know, Lane, you're even struggling with it, right? We all do to an extent. Like, you know, this money stuff, it's not always easy.
But I do think for them, they're going to have to start to learn from their mistakes. You asked that at the very beginning of the call. And now that I know kind of the situation more, yeah, there may be a case where they do learn. And that's hard. And you don't as a parent, you don't want to see your kids suffer or struggle. But sometimes it's one of the best gifts.
But I do think for them, they're going to have to start to learn from their mistakes. You asked that at the very beginning of the call. And now that I know kind of the situation more, yeah, there may be a case where they do learn. And that's hard. And you don't as a parent, you don't want to see your kids suffer or struggle. But sometimes it's one of the best gifts.
But I do think for them, they're going to have to start to learn from their mistakes. You asked that at the very beginning of the call. And now that I know kind of the situation more, yeah, there may be a case where they do learn. And that's hard. And you don't as a parent, you don't want to see your kids suffer or struggle. But sometimes it's one of the best gifts.
And if they can do that at 24 versus 44 when you finally let go or something, right? Like that's good. That's a great thing.
And if they can do that at 24 versus 44 when you finally let go or something, right? Like that's good. That's a great thing.
And if they can do that at 24 versus 44 when you finally let go or something, right? Like that's good. That's a great thing.
But she's 24.
But she's 24.
But she's 24.
That's what I'm saying is I'm like, I think you have the conversation, but then I think the adults have to be adults too, right? I mean, there's a lot of people that listen to this show and their parents were horrible with money and never taught them about money, but – They've had to figure it out, too. Right.
That's what I'm saying is I'm like, I think you have the conversation, but then I think the adults have to be adults too, right? I mean, there's a lot of people that listen to this show and their parents were horrible with money and never taught them about money, but – They've had to figure it out, too. Right.
That's what I'm saying is I'm like, I think you have the conversation, but then I think the adults have to be adults too, right? I mean, there's a lot of people that listen to this show and their parents were horrible with money and never taught them about money, but – They've had to figure it out, too. Right.
Look at dad. Look at him. Yeah. And Lane, just know that budgeting, it takes about three months to get it right. So give yourself some grace. Get through the summer. Try budgeting through the summer. Don't give up if the first budget doesn't work. But hold on the line. Kelly will pick up and we'll get that gift to you.
Look at dad. Look at him. Yeah. And Lane, just know that budgeting, it takes about three months to get it right. So give yourself some grace. Get through the summer. Try budgeting through the summer. Don't give up if the first budget doesn't work. But hold on the line. Kelly will pick up and we'll get that gift to you.
Look at dad. Look at him. Yeah. And Lane, just know that budgeting, it takes about three months to get it right. So give yourself some grace. Get through the summer. Try budgeting through the summer. Don't give up if the first budget doesn't work. But hold on the line. Kelly will pick up and we'll get that gift to you.
Thank you, Ken.