Rachel Cruze

Does he have a lot of debt, Jessica?

No.

But if his...

Parents were sick and he was their caretaker and like did all this and didn't have the margin to say for retirement.

But he was telling you at 45, this is his plan.

You know what I mean?

Like if there was like an effort for the reason why and a good reason, I don't think you would feel like that.

I think you'd be like, God, you are a good man and you're going to be a really great husband.

And I'm excited to partner with you.

It wouldn't feel like a subsidy if what he was doing was honorable.

And when you go into a relationship with someone, right, a long term, lifelong, and they don't have the ability to think effectively.

far out in the future and monetarily of just taking care of the family.

Yeah, and if I don't have a partner, that's going to be not even equal dollar amount, but equal effort.

You know what I mean?

In that, yeah, that's hard.

Equal concern.

And it's not a, you know...

a woman versus man thing.

I think the opposite would be the same.

If a guy called and said, yeah, she has nothing.