Rachel Cruze
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and then you choose to get married to someone, you have built a substantial life over one to two decades of working.
And I do think it would be easier to merge and mold those two lives when your values are the same.
But when you're coming at it so separately, and your results have been so different over the same amount of working time, or hers are even, I mean, he's 10 years older than her, and he has nothing, and she's 10 years the last caller.
You know what I mean?
That's the hard part.
That's the tension point because it reveals who you are and what kind of partner you're going to be.
That's a good point.
That's right.
Resentment of what they're doing.
That's right.
That's right.
Absolutely.
And also knowing people's values can change.
We get the question a lot, should I marry someone with debt?
And we're like, yes, you can marry someone with debt.
But what is their value around that subject?