Rachel Lindsay

And dating's really hard.

And there is this misconception, and I think she says it, of because I'm this, men expect that I want that as well.

And if they're not that, then they start feeling a certain way.

And she's right.

People see you and they're like, oh, she wants someone who's like this.

But when a woman...

A lot of times, not all women are like this, but like when a woman is established and she's got all these things, what's missing from her life are things that aren't necessarily materialistic.

But there's this perception that that is exactly what we want.

Men already come feeling a little bit insecure.

And so it makes dating hard.

And I will also add that when I have met men who are successful, they actually are turned off by me being equally successful.

They want somebody who maybe isn't as opinionated.

Yep.

Yeah.

Yeah.

They want a cheerleader.

Or I see those men want to infantilize the women sometimes.

And of course, that's not all successful men.

But in my experience, I've seen that or my friends experience that as well.

So what I think is so interesting about her setup right now, I'm really interested in her story.